Showing posts with label life decisions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life decisions. Show all posts
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Tuesday, September 23, 2014
DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES : Sex Questions
"I won't be shy about asking sex questions of any person I might have sex with!"
Missy here!
If you're thinking about having sex with someone you should feel free to ask them some questions about their sexuality and health and relationship status before you do! Many people move from having a hook up, a meet up, friends with benefits or a fling, an affair or an adventure, or just sexting into a "relationship" without knowing much about the other person. It is too dangerous out there health-wise to be so casual about your sexuality.
HIV infection and AIDS is a big worry. But did you know that if you're exclusively heterosexual and you're with someone who is also exclusively heterosexual, don't do anal sex, and don't share needles for drug use, you're biggest STD concern is herpes? In some parts of the United States up to 25% of the heterosexual population has herpes and if you become one of those who has herpes you could be on expensive prescription drugs for years, have painful outbreaks that make sex terrible, need to have a C-Section birth, and will have to use protection each and every time you have sex even when you're married? SO WHY NOT USE PROTECTION EACH AND EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX now so you won't have to deal with such issues later?
Besides asking a person to use protection, you may also want to ask them some penetrating questions (pun intended!) about their relationship status. Are you married? Do you have a girlfriend? Are you seeing anyone else? If the person says they are married ask them if they are legally separated or living alone and how long they have been.
Do not be one of those people who, when confronted with the truth, confronts the other person, only to be told "Well, YOU never ASKED!"
Missy here!
If you're thinking about having sex with someone you should feel free to ask them some questions about their sexuality and health and relationship status before you do! Many people move from having a hook up, a meet up, friends with benefits or a fling, an affair or an adventure, or just sexting into a "relationship" without knowing much about the other person. It is too dangerous out there health-wise to be so casual about your sexuality.
HIV infection and AIDS is a big worry. But did you know that if you're exclusively heterosexual and you're with someone who is also exclusively heterosexual, don't do anal sex, and don't share needles for drug use, you're biggest STD concern is herpes? In some parts of the United States up to 25% of the heterosexual population has herpes and if you become one of those who has herpes you could be on expensive prescription drugs for years, have painful outbreaks that make sex terrible, need to have a C-Section birth, and will have to use protection each and every time you have sex even when you're married? SO WHY NOT USE PROTECTION EACH AND EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX now so you won't have to deal with such issues later?
Besides asking a person to use protection, you may also want to ask them some penetrating questions (pun intended!) about their relationship status. Are you married? Do you have a girlfriend? Are you seeing anyone else? If the person says they are married ask them if they are legally separated or living alone and how long they have been.
Do not be one of those people who, when confronted with the truth, confronts the other person, only to be told "Well, YOU never ASKED!"
C 2014 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot
Saturday, May 18, 2013
DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Being Fair To Oneself
"I won't easily give up my own career to make a man my career - that just wouldn't be fair to me!"
She meets him and he can Provide, but now he wants her to Travel with him, and he Hopes that won't be a Problem since she can always take a semester off, leave her boring job behind, or otherwise be Available.
Why not? Life with him - married or not - is bound to provide distractions, entertainments, and advantages she can't provide for herself.
These days, with so very many more opportunities for self support open to women in the Western World, there are very few traditional stay at home wives or mistresses!
While you may have to be Flexible and Reinvent Yourself to Keep this Relationship, don't give up what you've got going for yourself on a whim, just because you are Hot and In Love.
Being Feminine never meant being Foolish!
Missy
C 2013 All Rights Reserved Mistress Manifesto
She meets him and he can Provide, but now he wants her to Travel with him, and he Hopes that won't be a Problem since she can always take a semester off, leave her boring job behind, or otherwise be Available.
Why not? Life with him - married or not - is bound to provide distractions, entertainments, and advantages she can't provide for herself.
These days, with so very many more opportunities for self support open to women in the Western World, there are very few traditional stay at home wives or mistresses!
While you may have to be Flexible and Reinvent Yourself to Keep this Relationship, don't give up what you've got going for yourself on a whim, just because you are Hot and In Love.
Being Feminine never meant being Foolish!
Missy
C 2013 All Rights Reserved Mistress Manifesto
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