DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES : PRIORITIES

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Priorities from June 26, 2009

Knowing that there are many ways to love and be loved, I shall love myself most of all!

FAVORITE THINGS BY MARY J. BILGE

E.S.T.E.A.M stands for Empowering Successful Teens through Education, Awareness and Mentoring : DAWN SCHILLER TURNS HER HARSH EXPERIENCE AROUND TO HELP OTHERS

 

EMPOWERTEENS - and E.S.T.E.A.M

update April 2022.  It appears this link is "suspended."

So I'm offering this link to DAWN who holds a Masters Degree and is and expert

in sex trafficking: DAWN SCHILLER COM - BIO

 

DAWN SCHILLER

DAWN SHILLERS WEB SITE

from publicity photos

on her web site.

 

From EMPOWERTEENS: "To think of images of kids beat down, used or thrown away should break our hearts. What a terrible feeling to be unwanted, not important enough to be asked what you might be thinking or feeling. No one to worry if you are scared or lonely… to offer you safety without strings. We recycle our trash, but consider an unwanted teen unsalvageable. Why? They are our poets, artists, musicians, scholars, athletes, chemists, and thespians. They are worth more than the sky. They are all our children. Let’s embrace them."

 

 

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Speaking Your Truth In A Relationship

"Am I a mistress or am I just having an affair?  I ask myself which is it, and most of all, I know what I want, and when the time is right, I will speak of what that is - to him."

DECLARATON FOR MISTRESSES - Self Worth

"I won't undervalue or devalue myself!  I am worthy!"  

(This declaration doesn't give you the right to be a Brat or totally about ones self but since so many mistresses are very generous and giving people who may not think enough of themselves...)

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES : Martyrdom

"I won't become a martyr to keep my relationship." 

Some people think that mistresses are especially martyrs for their relationships, but of course that isn't true. Many people, including wives, keep their marriages by being martyrs too. These relationships are unhealthy because take too much self sacrifice as a term and condition of the relationship.

I'm not talking about the fact that long-term commitments often do take some self sacrifice or compromise of both partners - or all concerned - through certain times - but that at no time will the Martyr's wants and needs be considered.

You have to ask yourself if your station in life - the station you were born in, the station you achieved through education, employment, or other means, is better or worse than you station now. Don't have delusions of grandeur. Would you be better off independent or any relationship? In a traditional marriage?

C 2011 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Ideals and Reality

"I will not confuse my ideals and my reality."  

C 2009  Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot First Published November 14,2009

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Inner Beauty

"I will bring forth my inner beauty."  

Mistresses are often thought to be trading their outer beauty for wealth. But history doesn't prove this to be true. Some mistresses were plain looking, some heavy, and some were not especially intelligent. Yet they had their appeal. Personality - and compatibility - is important! And not all men who have mistresses are actually wealthy. Some are well to do or comfortable. Many mistresses are still providing most of their own support.

C 2009 -2025 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot

First published September 12, 2009

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Priorities

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Priorities from June 26, 2009

Knowing that there are many ways to love and be loved, I shall love myself most of all!