Mistress Manifesto: Sarah J. Symonds

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Sunday, August 6, 2023

SARAH J. SYMONDS : A BITTER EX MISTRESS

SARAH J. SYMONDS A BITTER EX MISTRESS - from April 24, 2009

We're providing you the link to Sarah J. Symonds, her book, her chatroom, and her support groups to help people, mostly females, get out of affairs with married men. Now, I've read this book and I think Sarah is materialistic and very very bitter. She is NOT the woman to be a mistress, and her failure to know that about herself and go after and stay in relationships with married men, because they are or were posh, was her problem.

Now of all things, guess who was posting about Sarah in 2008? Arianna Huffington!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/11/23/sarah-symonds-gordon-rams_n_145812.html

And this from the Daily Mail in the U.K.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-501371/The-mistress-self-delusion-Lord-Archers-ex-lovers-guide-virtues-woman.html

"I don't advocate affairs," she reiterates. "But it's going on everywhere. I just want women to be more like men and not get their hearts broken like I did. I'm saying that if you're going to do it, make sure you get the most out of it."

**** Sarah was called a "professional mistress" because of her involvement with more than one high-profile married man.

SARAH J. SYMONDS QUOTE and NEWS from May 15, 2009

"Wives and mistresses have a lot in common. I am all for wives having as much as they can get if a marriage goes wrong, but the mistress should be treated in the same way. "They are sharing half a man. He is getting the best of both of them. I am saying support the mistress as well as the wife. I am very mercenary about that."

It's recently been reported in the April 6, 2009 GLOBE news, that Sarah as a $750,000 book deal to write about her more recent seven year affair with the chef with the television series, Gordon Ramsay who she saw for seven years (We believe you Sarah!). We're hoping Sarah will write the book! And here is one of the reasons why! BECAUSE THIS WAY SARAH CAN MAKE SOME MONEY OF HER OWN IN A PROFESSION OUTSIDE MISTRESSING!

Pamela Des Barres, the Queen of the Groupies, has turned her life into a successful creative writing career, why not Sarah?

According to the page 13 report, Gordon, 42, has denied having an affair with Sarah.

Friday, August 4, 2023

BEING A MISTRESS IS AN ECONOMIC OPTION FOR SURVIVAL

BEING A MISTRESS IS AN ECONOMIC OPTION FOR SURVIVAL from May 14. 2009

That's RIGHT! Just like being a wife and mother used to be and is (for a dwindling number of women in the United States). What we learn from history is that MARRIAGE often had little to nothing to do with LOVE.

People were very pragmatic. And they were perhaps doomed from birth to keep to certain status and occupation. Historical mistresses sometimes rose up from the lower classes, due to beauty or talent or skill or love or fate...

Today, Mistress as a term is used indiscriminately. But part of the problem is that it's too easy to call a woman who is having an affair with a married (or living with someone) man a Mistress, when she is actually a hardworking career woman who doesn't count on him for her support, or even expect expensive gifts.

You must ask yourself just how important material things are to you. Are you truly greedy? Or do you know what having "enough" is? If you want riches, then you must not settle for less, at least not when (or if!) you are young, beautiful, talented, sexy - and educated. At some point in your life though you must decide if you want riches married, or if you can accept riches unmarried but otherwise occupied!

Missy

This appears to be my first "Opinion Piece"

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Thursday, October 28, 2021

"CELEBRITY MISTRESSES" WHO REALLY WERE NOT and the MEN WHO DIDN'T KEEP THEM : MISSY SPEAKS

In searching for people to feature on this blog, I sometimes do internet searches to see what's up. I've found so many articles that use the term CELEBRITY MISTRESSES. While many of these articles are correct about the fact that there has been adultery, they are rarely correct about the terms and conditions of the relationship. Affairs, even extremely brief events, are turned into relationships. Relationships, some of which end in someone's divorce and remarriage are not the same as the relationship between a person who has negotiated being in a long relationship with another person and is closer to being a second spouse. One article I found was right on about various celebrity men and their "baby mamas" but there is no evidence that any of these women who (sorry to say) stupidly had babies with men who use their celebrity to whore around were their Mistresses. (I'd love to know about the child support issues.)

However, we are in the process here of DEFINING Mistress. If you page through my archives you'll get a feeling for the people who I've featured thus far and why. Sometimes I elect someone an Honorary Mistress. I don't think Monica Lewinsky ever was but I've featured her and also said, in so many words, Get Off Her Back! I suspect Anna Bey once was and decided she wanted a different life. Isadora Duncan was, with Paris Singer who was her arts patron as well who helped her survive in Paris and move towards her dream of a dancing school. Although a woman can be financially independent and a Mistress, the rich man who can afford to "Keep" or "Help" a woman is more likely to have a Mistress. Do I believe Sarah Symonds, who was a Mistress to a famous married chef? Yes. I do. Bill Gates? I doubt it. Women throwing themselves at his feet? Probably.

In several articles, Marilyn Monroe is identified as a Mistress because she supposedly had affairs with President Kennedy and his brother Robert. This tale has been repeated and taken on more and more "fact" as time goes on, yet the overly married Marilyn who also was, reportedly, quite the sexual adventurer for her time, and may even been expected to sleep with various Hollywood power players to have a career, had to know that having sex and having a relationship could be two different things. I pity her and the women who, like her, felt or knew they had to have sex with men in order to have a career. However, Marilyn was a Mistress early in her life with an agent named Johnny Hyde.

Tiger Woods is a man who is linked with many women who are called Mistresses because of their affairs with him while he was married. I have no reason to think any of them were. I tend to discount any reportage that calls women who have had affairs with celebrities Mistresses. So NO Rachel Uchitel was not a Mistress.

And hell no Amy Fisher was not a Mistress to Joey Buttafuoco.

There are a lot of celebrities, and that includes politicians, who didn't seem to mind that someone is married or that they are married, when they meet someone else who is willing, they have affairs. Affairs sometimes turn into a remarriage or the Mistress relationship, but my thinking on this is that these people are too high profile to have private lives and that some of them use their drama to fuel their fame.

I don't think in this day and age it's possible to have a Classic Mistress if you're a celebrity but if you have a whole lot of money you can make it happen, if the Mistress is capable of being discreet, which probably means she is not aiming for fame herself. Even if a person compartmentalizes their life, a reporter is on the story.

Missy