MISTRESSES ARE READING : JANICE DICKINSON EVERYTHING ABOUT ME IS FAKE...AND I'M PERFECT

Janice Dickinson was a supermodel, a vicious competitor, a verbal snipe, an unapologetic gold digger, into control and power - a discipline mistress in attitude, and over all not a nice person. The book offers you many pictures of Janice herself and her two children. She confesses to AA and finding happiness, yet there is a prevailing feeling reading it that she is totally narcissistic and self-involved. Her intensity gives the impression that she was not just a hard partier and player, but angry and hostile, especially with men. Janice was sexually abused by her own father.

In this book Janice is especially pissed with Mick Jagger - till the end. She had a year long affair with him while also friends with Jerry Hall, the mistress who had so many children with him. Janice was playing for the highest pay. She says models sabotage each other, sometimes psychologically aiming at another models insecurities, sometimes with a little food poisoning.

The difference between a whore, a gold digger, a courtesan, and Janice???

Page 165

"Bad Sex A Go Go: Foreign Men Who Promise You the Freaking World"
"See, there was this head of state - I won't mention his name; I don't need any more men in black showing up at my door in the middle of the night. Well, I was doing a few print ads in his country, and one night he invited m,e to a restaurant with a name that began with Maison and ended with at $500 bill. I was compelled to say yes; after all, I was from the United States, proud of my heritage, and I thought my nation needed my services as a cultural ambassador.

After dinner, Mr. Powerful took me back to his penthouse suite at the best hotel in all the land. He dismissed the armed guards, double - locked the doors, took off his bulletproof vest, and turned down the lights. But he couldn't get it up.

It was a little disappointing. Here I was, already fancying myself a rock n roll Princess Grace. I knew I'd look damn good in one of those little diamond tiaras - and besides, I've always wanted a moat.

"Jan-eese!" my foreign billionaire moaned, trying to seal the deal some other way. "I can give you a fur coat, a Ferrari, a parcel of land in the South of France. Anything if you would be mistress."

"As much as I liked the idea of owning some French countryside, I just had to say no, though. What me and my big trap actually said "Are you kidding me? I don't think so. You need to,uh, be able to fly a different type of flag in order to keep my interest."

The only thing I walked away with that might was a pound of caviar from the minibar and the little gold crest off his jacket."

ReganBooks - AN Imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers
C 2004 Janice Dickinson.

DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Journaling

"I will keep a diary or journal!"  

I know some of you don't like to read or write a lot and keeping a diary may seem sort of teenage, but I think a dating/relationship diary is a really good idea.

These days you do a lot of texting and emailing your business to strangers but a diary is something you write to YOU, your secret self, or an imagined best friend who you can tell everything to, more than you would tell your priest or therapist (there isn't enough time or money!)

My only concern is that you have an excellent place to keep it hidden nearby. Diaries and journals can help you get focus, note changes, and make decisions... years go by and one day you can reread what you wrote now and understand how you were then. 

C 2012 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot

GO TO A PARTY TO SNIFF OTHER PEOPLE'S SWEAT TO FIND LOVE?

Just saw this article about pheromone parties and if you click on the title you'll get to read the whole thing!
"The parties started as an experiment in matchmaking by a California woman weary of online dating, but it turns out they also have a root in science. Researchers have shown that humans can use scent to sort out genetic combinations that could lead to weaker offspring.

At an art gallery in Los Angeles on a recent night, partygoers huddled around several tables covered with plastic freezer bags stuffed with shirts and an index card bearing a number. Once they found one they liked, a photographer snapped a picture of them holding the bag and projected it onto a wall so the shirt's rightful owner could step forward and meet his or her odor's admirer..."


(Click on the title to get to the link!)

MISSY ASKS YOU : DO YOU KNOW OF SOMEONE WHO SHOULD BE A MISTRESS INSTEAD OF A WIFE?

There are some people who get married and are soon very bored or feeling too confined with marriage.

Male or Female, gay or straight, they would be better off keeping their own place rather than moving in. They would be better off making their own money or spending the money they're supported with the way want to, without always having to confer and agree with a spouse. They need some separate vacations, separate friends, separate interests. Maybe they are a bit too independent for a traditional marital lifestyle.

Maybe their relationship would be better if they were never married.

KOSHER ADULTERY by SHMULEY BOTEACH : BOOK EXCERPT

BOOK EXCERPT : KOSHER ADULTERY by SHMULEY BOTEACH

Pages 58-59

"The reason we search for higher meaning in our relationships is that humans are endowed with perception and insight.... As long as a man and woman still want to know each other, their relationship is healthy and strong. They are still leaning inward toward one another, desirous of peeling off layer after layer - both in terms of clothing and psyche... But the moment they think that they completely "know" each other, the relationship has functionally terminated..."

"The relationship is dead the moment a couple hits a brick wall or when he things he's got her all figured out. His questions about her day at the office will stop. His desire to know how she can be sexually pleased will cease. Her hopes to be at his side through his long trek through life will diminish."

KOSHER ADULTERY
Seduce and Sin With Your Spouse
by SHMULEY BOTEACH
C 2002 Adams
Media Company Publisher

RIELLE HUNTER'S MEMOIR : SHE WASN'T JOHN EDWARDS FIRST MISTRESS

Linking to one of many articles, this one by MEG KINNARD, on RIELLE's new book, called "What Really Happened: John Edwards, Our Daughter and Me," just out, which is about her romance with politician John Edwards. This link has a good picture, and a long transcript you can read, to form your own opinions.

LOVE TRIANGLE IN ROSES

KOSHER ADULTERY by SHMULEY BOTEACH : BOOK EXCERPT

KOSHER ADULTERY
Seduce and Sin With Your Spouse
by SHMULEY BOTEACH C 2002
Adams Media Company Publisher

This book was really interesting to me because it's a famous Rabbi, Shmuley Boteach, telling married women to create terms and conditions in their marriage that would mistress proof it. How? By acting like mistresses themselves! Missy

Page 30

"Lillian Ross, the famous journalist, created a scandal a few years ago by writing of her forty year affair with William Shawn of The New Yorker, after he died. She maintained that "After forty years, our lovemaking had the same passion, the same energy...as it had in the beginning."

"Sounds impossible right? But read almost any revealing chronicle of an adulterous affair and the two participants claim the same thing. For the duration of their affair, they had really great sex. Their erotic desire for each other did not lessen with the passage of time. If they broke up it was for other reasons: The mistress became too possessive and demanded that her lover leave his wife; one of the two lovers was found out by his or her spouse who gave an ultimatum, the affair simply became too complicated; and so on. But lovers in an illicit affair almost never break up because the relationship simply becomes dull or boring..."


Quoting Rabbi Harold Kushner, Rabbi Boteach writes,"Once the mistress is readily available, without the thrill of a clandestine affair, she becomes less desirable. I told (the woman) to do nothing, not to throw him out, not to call him names or tell people what he had done. Don't put him in the position of choosing between a wife who curses him and a girlfriend who caresses him..."


"About 90 percent of men who leave their wives and move in with their mistresses end up leaving their mistresses within the first year of living together. Clearly, something about the passion and mystery is lost when the vagaries of everyday life set in."

RIELLE HUNTER INTERVIEW ON WIRED : THE TONE OF THIS ARTICLE IS OPEN AND POSITIVE

This ten internet page article by Lisa Depaulo for Wired, with beautiful photographs of Reille Hunter with daughter Quinn, by photographer Mark Seliger, is much more open and positive about Rielle as a person. Here she is seen as a beautiful loving mother who is not living high and mighty. Sadly some of the comments left below the article accuse her of being delusional and a liar. This interview is a testimonial to what her thoughts and feelings were about her relationship, her daughter, and all that money coming her way, which she says was given to her by Andrew Young, from sources she wasn't immediately aware of.


(Click on the title to get to the link!)