LOVELY LADY

 

S.O.A.R. SPEAK OUT-ACT-RECLAIM : FOUNDED BY VIRGINIA GIUFFRE

SPEAK OUT -ACT - RECLAIM  Virginia Roberts Giuffre was the founder of this non-profit.

"I do this for victims everywhere.  I am no longer the young and vulnerable girl who could be bullied.  I am now a survivor, and nobody can ever take that away from me." - Virginia Giuffre

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GROOMING : WHAT IS BEING GROOMED? YOU'RE NOT BEING DATED, YOU'RE BEING HUNTED

 

Virginia Guiffre is the most famous woman to speak out about her history of being sex trafficked and how it badly effected her emotions and thinking and changed her life. She struggled so valiantly. However, there are many other women, and some men, who have, both against Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell, and against other people, spoken out. You can find many of them on YouTube videos. Though some were abducted, many of them were groomed slowly but surely, only to find themselves living in horror.  

What is grooming? Don't feel bad if you've never heard that term because some people who have been groomed and sex trafficked didn't know those terms! It is a process, which can happen slowly or suddenly, in which a person who is an opportunist and user, a predator, and intends to sex traffic or prostitute you tries to make you comfortable with the idea of having sex with him and then strangers, perhaps first by pretending to love you, perhaps starting with being sexual with you in an OK way - but possibly by even assaulting you or abusing you, and/or buys you things but them expects you to 'pay back' by having sex with other people.

A pedophile is a person who is interested in having sex with others who are under the legal age, sometimes too young to even physically safely have sex. (Having your period is not evidence that your body is ready for sex or pregnancy or giving birth.)

If you would like to hear real women testify as to how it is they were groomed and sex trafficked I strongly suggest the YouTube station called SOFT WHITE UNDERBELLY.

YOUTUBE STATION : SOFT WHITE UNDERBELLY Uncensored videos.  Look for Kat and Karla. About being brain washed - breaking you down and turning you into what they want you to be. (A warning on these adult videos, as they may upset you terribly.)

So, I thought about it. Had anyone ever tried to groom me when I was a teen?

I think so, though it didn't go far. 

This was a man who was in his late thirties and married. He mentioned one of my friends was their babysitter and that she was his wife's "best friend." He told me about a man friend of his who was having sex with a young woman about my age. I guess he was trying to get a reaction. What did I think about that? I don't recall having an opinion to express. He mentioned being attracted to other girls and that he had kissed one of them - a girl from my school. One day he threw himself on top of me and shoved his tongue into my mouth. It was not sexy and didn't feel good. I also didn't feel afraid. Other people could have walked in at any minute, so as an adult woman I wonder why he would take such a risk. I didn't go home and tell my mother. I should have but I have to wonder what, if anything, she would have done about it. I wasn't complimented. I didn't seek him out. I have to say that I was so naive at the time, I wasn't suspicious. I didn't understand what was going on.

The thing that bothered me most at the time was that he seemed extremely interested in who among my friends was having sex. Some were, with their boyfriends who were age appropriate. 

 

POLARIS PROJECT: HOW TRAFFICKERS GROOM AND CONTROL 

END SLAVERY NOW : GROOMING FOR SEXUAL EXPLOITATION

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BLUE BUTTERFLY ON MINT

 

JEFREY EPSTEIN COMMIT SUICIDE RATHER THAN FACE LEGAL JUSTICE : OR DID HE? THE MONSTER PUT HIS FORTUNE IN A TRUST TWO DAYS BEFORE HE DIED

  Because I've been watching the news, especially on YouTube videos, I know that Jeffrey Epstein's death by suicide is suspicious and that his own brother believes he would never do that and that he was murdered.

Excerpts pages 300 - 301 :  "I can make a case for either suicide or murder.  This was a man who bragged about his access to power - by this point in his life he was known to have relationships with not just pretty young girls and brainiac scientists but also the likes of Microsoft cofounder Bill Gates, James "Jes" Staley, the CEO of Barclays Bank, and Leon Black, the cofounder and CEO of the private equity firm Apollo Global Management.  According to court documents, Epstein also knew Google co-founders Sergey Brin and Larry Page well enough to have introduced them and others to Staley. In addition to his self-described "biological" need for sex, Epstein needed to feel important, and collecting such high-profile acquaintances had helped him feed that hunger.  Now being in jail meant having no access to either the young girls he loved to abuse or the powerful men he yearned to rub shoulders with.  That certainly would have made him want to end it all.  On the other hand, Epstein was the ultimate narcissist He believed he was superior to others, and I never saw in him a scintilla of self-doubt, let alone a desire for self-annihilation.  He always suggested to me that those videotapes he so meticulously collected in the bedroom and bathrooms of his various houses gave him power over others. He explicitly talked about using me and what Id been forced to do with certain men as a form of blackmail, so these men who'd owe him favors. Could it be that someone who feared exposure by Epstein had found a way to exterminate him? I know that the official findings, including an inspector general's report issued in June 2023, say this is impossible, but I will never be entirely convinced...

...Investigators would soon discover that on August 8, two days before his death, Epstein had placed his entire fortune into a trust - "The 1953 Trust" - in the Virgin Islands."

***

Other women have come forward to say that they too were abused by Jeffery Epstein. Some of these women have united and say they will name the names if the governmental entities do not. Ghislaine Maxwell is in prison for about twenty years and rumors flow that she wants a Presidential pardon or appeals. 

This month's dedication to Virginia Roberts Giuffre wouldn't be complete without at least one YouTube video in which she appeared: So much has happened since this one, but as Virginia says it won't be over until all the participants get justice.

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VIRGINIA GUIFFRE TOOK A FINANCIAL SETTLEMENT FROM JEFFREY EPSTEIN and SO DID SIXTEEN OTHER WOMEN THAT SHE KNEW ABOUT

 In her book,  Virginia Guiffre states that she knew that sixteen women had taken settlements from Jeffrey Epstein rather than go forward with legal action against him.

Excerpt pages 212-213 :  "There are those who've criticized Epstein's victims for entering into confidential settlements with Epstein because, they assert, that allowed him to sweep his problems under the rug. People are particularly judgmental about our receiving money from him.  My response to that is anger.  The DOJ - not Epstein's victims - made the secret deal that ultimately let Epstein off the hook in 2008: Alexander Acosta, the US attorney for the Southern District of Florida, approved the non prosecution agreement behind closed doors without consulting with (and while actively misleading) Epstein's victims.  Afterwards, those of us whom Epstein had abused were told that was the end of it - Epstein wouldn't be prosecuted. no matter how much we wanted him to be. We were also told that extracting money from him was the only way to punish him. (Remember that it was the DOJ that connected me with a lawyer so I could sue.) But here's the real reason I'm angry at those who judge victims who settle: all that legalese in our lawsuits about pain and suffering and mental anguish - those things are real. And getting treatment for them costs money.

When I settled with Epstein, I had a little money for the first time in my life. After years of scrimping - of buying secondhand furniture, driving used cars, and xeroxing baby photos instead of ordering extra prints - Robbie and I could now buy our first house.  We found a brick three-bedroom in the suburb of Glenning Valley, about two hours north of Sydney. Epstein had taken what was left of my childhood. But now a tiny fraction of his immense fortune was going to ensure that my children grew up in their own home."

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MAJESTIC

 

THE CRITICISM OF VIRGINIA AND OTHER WOMEN WHO KEPT RETURNING TO EPSTEIN'S LAIR TO BE USED : THEY WERE GIRLS NOONE CARED ABOUT

 Excerpt pages 77-78 : "So many  young women, myself included, have been criticized for returning to Epstein's lair even after we knew what he wanted from us. How can you complain about being abused, some have asked, when you could so easily have stayed away? If you didn't like feeling dirty, you could simply have never gone back.

But that stance wrongly discounts what many of us had been through before we encountered Epstein, as well as how good he was at spotting girl's whose wounds made them vulnerable to him. Several of us had been molested or raped as children; many of us were poor or even homeless. Before meeting Epstein, one of his victims had watched her father beat an eight-year-old boy to death; another was present when her boyfriend killed himself. We were girls who no on cared about, and Epstein pretended to care. At times I think he even believed he cared. A master manipulator who excelled at divining the desires of others, he threw what looked like a lifeline to girls who were drowning, girls who had nothing, girls who wished to be and do better.  If they wanted to be dancers, he offered dance lessons.  If they aspired to be actors, he said he'd help them get roles. If they said the only thing they yearned to do was paint, he bought them canvases and introduced them to key people in the art world. And then he did his worst to them."

***

 After the first encounter, Virginia, then called Jenna Roberts as she had not yet married, both Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell trained her to satisfy them. She was still in Florida, but soon enough she would accompany them to New York City, and also to the island Epstein owned, Little Saint James, which he nicknamed Little Saint Jeff's. which was near the island of Saint Thomas in the United States Virgin Islands. Although Virginia names a number of people who were employees, such as the driver, and members of the "sorority of Epstein's girls" she does not reveal the names of the many scientists and other elite persons who she was expected to service (her term).  At this point I have to agree with something that Lady Colin Campbell said on one of her podcasts and that is that the focus has been on Prince Andrew, who has been stripped of his titles and much else over his (and his ex wife Sarah Ferguson's) friendship with Jeffrey Epstein, and that Virginia was seventeen when they 

Excerpt page 81 : "From that point on, when Epstein and Maxwell were in Florida, I was a daily presence at El Brillo Way. Some days Epstein and I were alone in the massage room. Other days Maxwell joined us; or another young woman, a brunette named Sarah Kellen, who was introduced to me as Epstein's assistant. ..."

*** 

Although I don't agree with Lady Colin Campbell on everything, at this point I agree that the focus has been on the former Prince Andrew - the Brits. Andrew and his former wife, Sarah Ferguson, have been stripped of titles and much else as punishment for their friendship with Epstein and lying about it.

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MOVE ON

 

VIRGINIA GIUFFRE WAS RECRUITED BY GHISLAINE MAXWELL AT MAR-A-LAGO AND HER "INTERVIEW" WAS A TRAP AND SO WAS THE OFFER OF A FULL TIME JOB

  Virginia's father worked for Mar-a-Lago and got her an interview and introduced her to Donald Trump himself. Trump asked her if she babysat and got her some work with nearby residents who had children. Her day job at the luxe resort was at the spa where professional massage therapists worked. Though she was not in the massage therapy rooms to witness, this lead to her interest in becoming a massage therapist herself. As she wrote on page 62, "For the first time in my life, I allowed a flicker of hope to build inside me."

 "Then, one steaming hot day some weeks before my seventeenth birthday, I was walking toward the Mar-a-Lago spa, on my way to work, when a car slowed behind me. I wish I could say that I sensed that something evil was tracking me, but as I headed into the building I had no inkling of the danger I was in." ... 

***

In the car following Virginia was Ghislaine Maxwell, who worked with Jeffrey Epstein, and her driver.

" ...this was an apex predator - as greedy and demanding on the inside as she appeared to be beautiful, posed, and self assured on the outside. Again, I wish I could say that I saw through Maxwell's polished facade - that, like a horse, I intuited the immense threat she posed to me.  Instead my first impression of Maxwell was the same one I formed when I greeted any well-heeled Mar-a-Lago guest. I'd be lucky, I thought, if I could grow up to be anything like her. "

 

***

Virginia was reading a library book on massage while at a reception desk when Ghislaine showed up.

Excerpt page 67 : "Suddenly I look up from my book to see a striking woman with short dark hair striding toward me.

"Hello," the woman says warmly. She looks to be in her late thirties, and her British accept reminds me of Mary Poppins. I couldn't tell you which designers she's wearing, but I bet her purse cost more than my dad's truck. The woman extends her manicured hand for me to shake ..."

***

Maxwell convinced Virginia that she should come meet a wealthy man - a math genius -a  man who she says likes to "help people" and who lives a couple miles away - that very night. Virginia said she had to get her father's permission first and in the end, her father drove her over for the interview, with Ghislaine assuring her father that they would get Jenna, as Virginia was then called, home safe. (!) The interview, which turned out to be a demonstration by Ghislaine on how to massage Jeffrey, included him questioning her about her sexual experience and ended with unexpected sexual encounter in which both Ghislaine and Jeffrey Epstein were sexual with Virginia. She complied.

Excerpt page 73 : "A familiar emptiness flooded me. Just minutes before, I had arrived at Epstein's mansion hoping that I was turning a corner. Now I knew I was right back where I'd worked so hard not to be. How many times had I put my faith in someone, only to be hurt and humiliated. But this time the disappointment was excruciating. I blamed myself. "Is sex all anyone will ever want from me?" a voice inside me shrieked, as another harsher voice chided: "Yes, you idiot. You knew that already." I tasted the tang of adrenaline in my mouth, and I could feel my brain begin to shut down. My body couldn't escape from this room, but my mind couldn't bear to stay, so it put me on a kind of autopilot" submissive and determined to survive.

Excerpt page 82 ; ..."How about you quit your job at Mar-a-Lago," he said, :and work for me full time?" Unsure what to say, I admitted I was worn out from pulling double shifts each day - the first at the spa - the second at El Brillo Way. Epstein nodded. He wanted to make things easier on me, he said.  But he had a few conditions. As his employee, I would be at his beck and call, day and night. No exceptions. When he said, "Jump" my response would have to be, "How high?" 

***

Virginia would quit her spa job and high school to work for Epstein. He gave her money, cash, after she had given service. He also let her know that he had a photo of her younger brother and where he went to school. The threat was that if she told anyone what went on - if she went to the authorities or betrayed Jeffrey, her younger brother would be hurt.

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BLUE BUTTERFLY ON A POPPY

 

AN INTERVIEW OF AMY WALLACE BY KATIE COURIC : AMY WAS VIRGINIA GUIFFE'S GHOST WRITER and SHE KNOWS THE NAMES

Two items on this post: First some good reportage via the BBC: Includes a Timeline of Virginia Guiffre and the then Prince Andrew, who has been stripped of his titles and sent away.

BBC NEWS: VIRGINIA GIUFFEE THOUGHT SHE MIGHT DIE A SEX SLAVE 

Article from 20 October 2025 by Noor Nanji and George Wright.

Excerpt: Ms Giuffre writes that she "didn't feel so great", adding: "Soon, Epstein would give me $15,000 for servicing the man the tabloids called 'Randy Andy' - a lot of money."

Ms Giuffre says she had sex for a second time with the prince around a month later at Epstein's townhouse in New York.

She says the third occasion was on Epstein's island as part of what Ms Giuffre called "an orgy".

She writes that she said in a sworn declaration in 2015 that she was "around 18".

"Epstein, Andy, and approximately eight other young girls and I had sex together," she says.

"The other girls all appeared to be under the age of 18 and didn't really speak English.

"Epstein laughed about how they couldn't really communicate, saying they are the easiest girls to get along with."

 

This is one of many videos I listened to. I admire Amy Wallace for continuing to promote Virginia Guiffre's book, which she was the ghost writer on. 

Ghislaine Maxwell is called out as having not just solicited girls for Jeffrey Epstein or his secretary or receptionist, but also physically sexually abusive of Virginia.

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SURVIVORS OF EPSTEIN and MAXWELL : THE EPSTEIN FILES ARE OK'D FOR RELEASE

 

How brave these women have been and are.  They represent many more  women who have not come forward. 

 

I must have watched a dozen videos about the vote going through the House and Senate. Finally, the Epstein Files are to be released.

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VIRGINIA LOUISE ROBERTS GIUFFRE : WE CAN'T NOT HEAR WHAT SHE'S SAID : FORCED PROSTITUTION AND INTERNATIONAL SEX TRAFFICKING : A DEVASTATING BOOK

 

VIRGINIA ROBERTS GIUFFRE

Born in California 1983 - Died by Suicide 2025 Australia

Nobody's Girl, written with a ghost writer, American award-winning journalist Amy Wallace, is the work of Virginia Robert Giuffre, was just one of the many women who were raped by the mysteriously wealthy New Yorker, and it'll hurt your heart to read it. 

I'm dedicating this month to a woman who was never a Mistress, or a Courtesan, but whose influence may be so profound that people around the world may begin to question their attitudes about women and sex; Virginia Roberts Giuffre was forced into prostitution and was sex trafficked to powerful and elite men as a nubile teenager. Virginia escaped two years of being trafficked by gaining the confidence of Jeffrey Epstein and his partner Ghislaine Maxwell. She actually agreed to carry and give birth to a baby - to hand it over to them - if they would finally send her to massage school as had initially been promised her. They sent her to Thailand to school there, through what seemed to be both fateful and spiritual means in that country, she met a man who quickly married her and took her to a new life in Australia. At the time of her death, they were estranged. There had been intense pressure and threats to her life. Virginia was one of the women who came forth to tell; eventually Epstein's death by suicide while in jail became suspicious - as is her suicide. 

Her book reveals herself to be, first and foremost, a loving mother of three children, and a woman who had tremendous challenges to overcome, including post traumatic stress syndrome. For their sake, I so wish she could have held on.

As you know, me and my blog stand for Choice but I'm realistic about it. I idealistically want everyone to have Choice all the time which includes never ever having sex when you don't want to - even when married. Let it be said that there are forces upon us that are cultural and societal and religious and - well, we often have to make the best of our situation. When it comes to who gets sex trafficked, while some people are abducted, many are lied to or solicited. It would seem that predators know when a child is someone that no one cares about.

Many of the women I've featured here at Mistress Manifesto created lives for themselves when women had very little Choice. They were remarkable enough in their time and place, because they survived or because they became famous or infamous enough to have books or written about them or to be in the media. Here we are in 2026 and things have changed for the better, in some parts of the world, but s l o w l y. Women generally have more opportunities than we've had throughout history, especially to financially support ourselves through education, employment, or business, and yet, sex trafficking, the absolute worst, an especially vile form of forced prostitution, a form of horrible violence to the body and the psyche, continues. And it would not exist if certain men (and some women) were not interested in sexually abusing women (and some men), including infants, boys and girls, and teens too young to be legal. It must end.

For Virginia, and many of those who have experienced being sex trafficked, first usually groomed or tricked into providing sexual "services" to strangers and others who have no respect or love for them, life can be emotionally and psychologically difficult forevermore. Virginia, though the years had gone by and she had established herself as a wife and mother in  Australia, did speak out, and so did many others; it's possible that the number of victims of Epstein, and his cohort, Ghislaine Maxwell, personally abused goes closer to a thousand. He like the All-American look, the girl-next-door, who was skinny and looked twelve to seventeen years old. Some of them didn't have the terrible experiences Virginia had before and were virgins.

Reading the book, I learned that Virginia had been molested and raped as a child for years. She had been a runaway whose parents had committed her as a fifteen year old juvenile delinquent to a program that was also abusive to the teens in its care. When she ran away from it, she was raped by two predators, one who strangled her, one who was running a fake modeling agency. Eventually the program came under scrutiny and the operator of the fake modeling agency was arrested, but not just because of her experiences. She felt her powerlessness and had no one at that point to tell. She had panhandled and done drugs - and would do them - including acid, ecstasy, Xanax, and cocaine. She had gone hungry at times. She had no money. She had been turned into a prostitute and was a high school drop out before she ever got her job at Donald Trumps Mar-A-Lago Club, where she was recruited by Ghislaine Maxwell, to be exploited by herself and Jeffrey Epstein. Sadly, it would seem that in Virginia's family her mother may have well known that her daughter was being molested by her father, as well as her father's friend.

About half this book is dedicated to what happened after years had gone by and she was contacted by Maxwell, who basically stated that Epstein was being prosecuted and wanted to know if Virginia was going to tell all. She was for many years protective of her family, unaware of the way some "journalists" operate, and torn because she didn't want what happened to her to keep happening. Eventually she activated.

Virginia committed suicide months before the publication of this book, which is being read around the world, creating discussions about sexuality, prostitution, and criminality. (My local library had over a thousand people on the wait lists for the book in text, audio, and electronic versions, before they even got a copy in to borrow!) Virginia's co-author, Amy Wallace, has done a valiant job of being interviewed about her interactions with Virginia as they wrote this book together. And in November 2025, when the House and Senate of the United States decided to vote to have the Epstein Files opened to the world, many of the women who survived their victimization stood together and credited Virginia - her honesty - with moving the cause of ending sex trafficking ahead. This has become a discussion of what people in power can and often do to those who do not have it.

There are many who believe that Virginia was pressured into suicide, that she feared for her life and that of her family members, because there were very rich and successful people who she had sex with, people who could (and in my opinion, should) loose everything, if what they did becomes known. President Donald Trump has also been criticized for adding the reveal of the Epstein File documents to his campaign promises and then putting up a great big fuss about their release.

Chances are you have met someone who has been molested or raped before the age of 18. You also likely know someone who is a sex offender. It is never good or right and I believe Virginia Giuffre intended to help other's who had experiences like hers begin to heal.

Although my blog includes 'adult subjects' when I excerpt from this book, I must be careful, as I do not get explicit in my posts and also will not censor by changing the wording. I trust that my readers, who want more details, will want to read this riveting book as well.

I hope to do my best this month to honor Virginia Roberts Guiffre!

Missy

I've listened to dozens of YouTube podcasts, including those by Lady Colin Campbell, concerning what has happened in the Royal family and in Great Britain because of the scandal; Prince Andrew, the brother of King Charles III of the United Kingdom, was stripped of his titles and forced into an exile from all things Royal last fall. Not only have I featured Lady Colin Campbell, who had originally defended Prince Andrew and considered Virginia to be a teenage prostitute, but I dedicated a month to Sarah, Duchess of York, also stripped of her titles and all things Royal, who was once married to Prince Andrew and who lived in the same (granted, very large house) with him for decades. 

I think the situation with Andrew and Sarah and Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell is likely far more complicated that we can imagine.

You may be interested in these archived posts:

April 2021

Special Topic

SEX TRAFFICKING : MORE PEOPLE ARE SEX TRAFFICKED TODAY THEN THERE WERE EVER AFRICAN SLAVES IN AMERICA

September 2023

SARAH DUCHESS OF YORK : STANDING BY HER MAN NO MATTER WHAT : DIVORCED TO HER EX HUSBAND PRINCE ANDREW : HONORARY MISTRESS OF THE MONTH

June 2024

THE ECCENTRIC and HIGHLY OPINIONATED LADY COLIN CAMPBELL (GEORGIE ZIADIE) :  MISTRESSES WERE UNDERSTOOD A CERTAIN WAY  As a note, Lady Colin Campbell has stated on her YouTube channel that she thinks that Virginia was a teenage prostitute who recruited other girls who were also hurt.

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