Page 211 Excerpt: (Regarding The Fountainhead, Ayn Rand's novel, which she had worked long and hard on, not being hoped for literary hit or the well received film, which premiered in Hollywood in June 1949 and was seen in Warner Brother's theaters after that.)
Saturday, April 12, 2025
THE FOUNTAINHEAD NOVEL BECOMES A FILM and NATHANIEL BRANDEN COMES INTO THE LIFE OF AYN RAND and HUSBAND FRANK O'CONNOR
Page 211 Excerpt: (Regarding The Fountainhead, Ayn Rand's novel, which she had worked long and hard on, not being hoped for literary hit or the well received film, which premiered in Hollywood in June 1949 and was seen in Warner Brother's theaters after that.)
Wednesday, December 13, 2023
SHE WAS A SUGAR BABY and NOW SHE'S BACK TO JUST DATING : WHAT'S IT LIKE?
This article was in Refinery and is by Arese Sylvester. She offers advice on how to play it safe and find the right Sugar Daddy for you.
REFINERY : DATING AFTER BEING A SUGAR BABY
Excerpts: Dr.Milo Gudelski, licensed psychologist and sex therapist, explains that some sugar babies struggle with recognizing sugar dating as a business and separating it from their personal lives. When the two get mixed up, expectations may become unreasonable, selfish and problematic. "I have seen this happen where sugar babies get accustomed to receiving gifts simply for showing up. It is easy for folks to loose themselves in this mindset and when this happens, the ability to form deeper connections in relationship is stunted." ....
The key to sugar dating is protecting your emotions so you can really finesse and get to the bag," says Dash Preistley, dating coach and former sugar baby. Priestley, who grew up an unaffectionate person, says that sugar dating exacerbated this and emotionally desensitized her. "I like to think of being a sugar baby as playing a character and you have to turn off this character when you're pursuing something more long term. Sometimes, you can't really turn it all the way off though." Another speed bump in the life after sugar dating is met when sugar babies become accustomed to choosing romantic partners for the wrong reasons. In regular relationships, security is related to several components like shared goals, common values, emotional and intellectual compatibility...
Wednesday, January 26, 2022
IS COUGER A BAD TERM TO USE ON WOMEN WHO ARE SEXUAL AGRESSORS?
GOOD MEN PROJECT ETHICS : STUFF WE SHOULD STOP DOING : CALLING WOMEN COUGARS by Yashar Ali.
A terrific think piece...
EXCERPT : I also think it's important to mention that "cougar" carries a connotation of predatory behavior, As i, A) the woman could only et the younger man by chasing after him like a rabid animal and B) the woman's personality has no part in the relationship, that the guy she's dating must only be with her so he can have wild, crazy sex or because she's rich. Or C) where cougars are often portrayed in a desperate ight, as if they have nothing better to do that "chase" after younger men. yet the men in these relationships aren't insulted or derided, even though they are adults who are consciously deciding to be in relationships with older women.
I urge you to click and learn more about terms such as Trophy Wife, Sugar Daddy, and so on...
Saturday, February 2, 2013
SHE'S A HOT SUGAR MAMA and HE'S HAPPY TO BE KEPT! FEBRUARY 2013 IS SUGAR MAMA AND DADDY MONTH!
One day, sitting outside at a cafe lunching with her, a much younger man came by. He was all smiles and she was blushing deeply, yes like a school girl. Soon I realized that she was his Sugar Mama.
If you knew Veronica's life story you would be amazed that anyone could make her heart pound so, that she could blush, and have such a crush on any man. She's overcome a lot of heartbreak and abuse. Her mother was nowhere for her and her father a torment.
What makes Veronica's lifestyle so different is that she has not only supported herself since she was 16 years old but supported men less than willingly for years.
Finally, she became independent and then she started supporting younger men by choice.
The man who makes her her heart pound and her cheeks blush is 30 years younger than her and he knows he has a good thing going. Veronica is aware that he is also dating and having sex with women his own age, though she hates to know it, but she still gives him a twenty here, a hundred there; more than once she gave him a couple thousand. He knows that she is always watching his back and that he will always have a place to stay with her, if he chooses.
Maybe she knows that the day will come when he leaves those flirtations behind and comes home to roost?
MORE AND MORE OFTEN I OVERHEAR MEN, especially younger men in their twenties, saying that they want to be stay-at-home fathers, or will let their wife work and support them. They seem to feel very comfortable with the idea, and do not consider themselves to be "gigolos" or take on any other derogatory label. Is this about the fact that men seem to have much better self esteem overall than women?
These men feel that the relationship is their private business. They feel entitled to live better than they can afford to on their own income. Some are artists or musicians and feel that artists have had wealthy patrons for centuries so why not them!
More than once a younger man has looked to me to be generous or support him. Personally, I have to pass!
This month I celebrate the Sugar Mamas and Sugar Daddys out there! YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!
Missy


