Showing posts with label Wallis Simpson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wallis Simpson. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 23, 2024

20th CENTURY JEWELRY and THE ICONS OF STYLE : MISTRESS MANIFESTO BOOK REVIEW

Post originally on Mistress Manifesto on May 26, 2018 

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Maria Callas, our opera singer Mistress of Ari Onassis, who was left behind temporarily when he married the windowed First Lady Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy, on the cover, who wouldn't want to see what fabulously expensive gems she owned.  And another of our Mistresses, Wallis Simpson - who became Duchess of Windsor when the King abdicated so he could marry her, is included.  Besides bios of some of the world's wealthiest and arguably most beautiful and accomplished women in the world included (what about that Daisy Fellowes?! Or what about Ganna Walska?!) you might want to page through this one and read the bios but also, as I did, think to yourself, that a piece is gaudy or that you wish you could own a mock-up with cubic zirconia if not the real thing!  I and a friend paged through together and did think a lot of the jewelry was too much, that it overwhelmed the wearer and the dress in most cases.  But something very lovely about this book is that the necklaces, bracelets, earrings, and rings photographed are shown with photographs and paintings of the women wearing the items, putting them in scale, as well as some design sketches done before a single stone was reset.  Now famous jewelers and designers are name dropped in this book as you might expect - Cartier, Van Cleef and Arpels, Boivin. Boucheron, Faberge.  Some of these jewelers remade pieces to update them or to combine the gemstones from more than one old necklace.  (Kind of like my old friend K who wore a diamond ring that used her husband's mother's and grandmother's stones.)  You may decide you like diamonds mixed with turquoise or red coral or not. The tiger motif was very popular apparently.  And then there are the diamonds and pearls that are worth more than you'll earn in a lifetime. As for Onassis, you will find him in this book looking unexpectedly dapper and handsome when he was younger with more society babes than diva Maria.  As for the Duchess of Windsor, who was plain old Wallis Simpson before she made her inroads into British society, those of you who are fascinated with this women will be happy to see photographs of her happy and having a good time and looking radiant and even beautiful; she wasn't always sullen or looking lonely out a window!


Interested in Maria Callas? - in my archives for Maria Callas she is Mistress of the Month for January 2010.
Interested in Wallis Simpson? - Duchess of Windsor - in my archives for Wallis Simpson Windsor, she is Mistress of the Month, August 2010.






Monday, April 15, 2019

PAMELA CHURCHILL and WALLIS SIMPSON, the DUCHESS OF WINDSOR - FAST FRIENDS

Both Pamela Churchill and Wallis Simpson, the Duchess of Windsor, had been shunned by British society despite their social status - Pamela's was born with, Wallis' acquired with marriage. They were both divorced women. And Wallis had been a Mistress before she was a wife. (Page 180)  Though Pamela was twenty-four years younger than Wallis, they had much in common. They both coaxed their beauty, dressed exquisitely, and learned to entertain in beautiful surroundings. The Duchess was kind and affectionate to her young-enough-to-be-a-daughter friend.

Alexander Liberman ( who worked for Conde Nast Magazines such as Vanity Fair) said of Pamela in  the 1950's "She was  part of a very grand tradition of mistresses kept on a grand scale."  But British aristocrats made fun of Pamela, just as she'd been made fun of by some of her peers as a debutante. And as always she kept a game face, acting as if she were not bothered or even knew.

For all her energy, her championing of her men, Pamela didn't have much of a sense of humor. While not putting pressure on a man, she would try to make one jealous with another.  She shared many a man with his wife - and perhaps other women too - let them end the relationship - and stuck around for the friendship.

Wallis Simpson was our Mistress of the Month for  January 2010 and is also mentioned in August 2018's Mistresses of the Riviera,

Thursday, August 2, 2018

MISTRESSES of THE RIVIERA

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MAXINE ELLIOT aspired to be the Mistress of King Edward VII 
and went on to own Chateau de l'Horizon.
I don't think that's her on the book cover.

The South of France.  To Americans who have never been there, we're talking about a long season of warm Mediterranean climate and the blue sea, a European vacation place that also boasts some year-long residents, and a history of intrigue and mistresses.  Mary Lovell's book, "The Riviera Set," focuses on those who peopled the French Riviera between 1930 and 1960 and one special white art-deco villa, owned by Maxine Elliot, an American stage actress turned society hostess.  Maxine Elliot first  married at 16 and then again.  She and her second husband were well known stage actors and she even made a couple silent films.  What she did best was invest wisely and well and rise up into English society. "Retired" from acting, Chateau de l'Horizon, which had been popular in the last decades of the 1800's with Russian and British royals, needed a rehab.  She gave it one. A summer holiday secret,  Maxine Elliot hosted Winston Churchill, Picasso, Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald, and the Duke and Duchess of Windsor, and so very many more.

Maxine herself set her sights on the Honorable George Keppel, youngest son of the 7th Earl of Albemarle and friend of the new King, Edward VII (a.k.a The Prince of Wales.).  She aimed for the heart of the royal set. Keppel had impeccable manners and charm but was always short on money. His wife, Alice, was the same age as Maxine and one of the foremost hostesses in England and a favorite mistress of the King. Let's note that this is the ancestor of Camilla Parker Bowles who proceeded her as a King's Mistress.  Maxine as "Miss Elliot," and only separated from her actor husband, Max, called upon Alice, and had her entrée into that set.

"I don't mind what she does," Keppel famously remarked about Alice, "as long as she comes back to me in the end."  It's safe to say that the Keppel marriage was an open one and each partner behaved with discretion. 

Maxine knew that back in the U.S.A, if a man who belonged to "The Four Hundred" called on a beautiful actress without a chaperone, there was only one outcome.  An actress who became the mistress of such a man was expected to be treated well, but this did not mean that she was included in the same social circles as his wife.  This social stigma was a fate she wished to avoid.

Maxine and Max's audiences considered them a romantic pair and it was career endangering to separate, but she was about 35, and said to be at the height of her luscious beauty.  Maxine became a bankable solo star, and in 1905 went to London where the King attended a performance.  In 1907 Max divorced her on grounds of desertion in Reno, Nevada.  The King had a posse of mistresses. Maxine noticed that she was never included in events that the King attended so she decided to go to Paris, buy a new wardrobe, and then see him around Marienbad, a spa in Germany.  She set herself outside just reading a book where the King and his friends would pass by as a strategy.  It worked.  The King wanted Mrs. Arthur James to include Maxine at dinner and Maxine dressed and waited for the invitation, which did not come.  The King insisted.  Mrs. Nate Goodwin (Maxine) received her invitation when a footman went across the courtyard to get her.  From then on Maxine was included in all the activities of the King's party.  Was she just a charming companion or another of the King's mistresses?  In 1909 the King made his move to be alone with her for the weekend with just him, his valet, and his equerry. She decided not to take the bait.  She wanted others present.  Some weeks went by and before anything more could happen, the King died.

The power of King's mistress Alice Keppel in society died with the King's death. The new King George didn't want her around.  But Maxine remained friends with Alice and the Keppels moved to Italy and were occasional guests of Maxine and their friends.  Maxine herself was not shunned by the new King George's court.  Winston and Clementine Churchill were friends.  The Duke of Rutland (including Lady Diana Manners) who were life long friends of Maxine's came.

Then when Maxine was 42 years old, she fell from Tony Wilding, a much younger tennis player who had became the 1920 singles champion.  She owned a house called Hartsbourne and there they played tennis together. She was happy with him as a companion and lover and he lived with her in his own rooms in the house. He was proud to know her and an all around nice man. After becoming a Wimbledon champion 1912 and 1913 the couple announced their engagement.  Tony would be her third, best marriage but it never happened.  He lost his nerve. World War I was brewing and Tony went to New York in 1914 and after winning four Wimbledon's lost.  Tony served Britain in France collecting intelligence but was eventually in the trenches on the front lines in the Royal Marines.  Tony was killed by the direct hit of a shell in May of 1915, and he would be the love of her life, the last big romance for Maxine.  Her friends said she was never the same.  She would outlive him by 25 years.  She lost her looks.

Maxine herself ran a private ambulance to take men to field hospitals in France, 1914. She'd hoped to see Tony around in France.  Her war work extended to taking food, clothing, blankets, and medicine her friends contributed.  She wrote letters that appeared in American newspapers about the horrors of war.  At 48, the distraught Maxine had gained 30 pounds, had dyed hair and a little facelift, and was going to psychics to communicate with Tony.  Continuing on as Maxine Elliot, she appeared from 1917-1920 on Broadway, toured the U.S.A., made silent films for Sam Goldwyn, met Charlie Chaplin.  By 1920 she was worth a million dollars and needed a 3rd act for her life.

The new Prince of Wales, who would go on to abdicate and marry Wallis SImpson, had Freda Dudley Ward as his mistress about 1921. She sold Hartsbourne and bout another house.  It was easier to climb socially after the war because so many people had been killed first by war, and then the Spanish Flu epidemic.  By 1924 Paris was about Isadora Duncan, Picasso, Hemingway, Elsa Maxwell - an American who threw parties for everyone and entertained, and the designer Jean Patou. CoCo Chanel was there and Hugh Grosvenor, 2nd Duke of Westminister, the richest man in the world fell for her. The two of them showed up after a vacation with tans at a time when women were still avoiding the sun.

So Maxine moved to the Riviera, personally unhurt by the stock market crash.  And she bought the property on the Golfe Juan, the bay between Antibes and Cannes.

I'll stop the story here, for we have the rest of this glorious month of August to go on about the chateau and the people who came to vacation or hide out.

If you're interested in learning more about some of the people who I've name dropped above, because they have been covered here in the past at MISTRESS MANIFESTO BLOGSPOT, please use the search feature embedded in the blog!  CoCo Chanel, Wallis Simpson,  Isadora Duncan have whole months, as does Camilla Parker Bowles!  Or you may just want to scan for Great Britain or France!

Missy

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Saturday, June 2, 2018

CO CO CHANEL - NAZI and SPY or SOCIETY WOMAN in LOVE?


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*A version of the book is subtitled "Nazi Agent" Was her
"Secret War" to keep her business?
Gabriella "CoCo" Chanel
1882 - 1971

In June of 2011, I elected CoCo Chanel, as Mistress of the Month.  Here she is again, this time as a possible spy for Nazi Germany. She grew up in a convent where she'd been left as a child when her mother died by a father who didn't want his children.  Her way out of being the equivalent of a foster child who had to make it alone was to sing for her supper, and become a Mistress. Lovers financed her attempts at business, as a hat maker and then as a revolutionary and renown fashion designer who became wealthy from sales of her signature perfume Chanel  No. 5 and had over 2500 employees, mostly women, when the Nazis took over Paris.  She never had a marriage or children herself, but she was generous to her family, the education of her sister's children.  She also is known to have financed men she was interested in, having achieved independence and unusual success "for a woman."
Chanel succeeded through enterprise and creativity, and though she rose up in society to have both the exiled Duke of Windsor and his wife, the Duchess Wallis Simpson, and hero Winston Churchill as friends.
The author of this book, Hal Vaughan, exposes her relationship with spy Baron Hans Gunther Von Dincklage, called Spatz, and we wonder how much did she know. I don't believe she ever forgot what it was to be impoverished, orphaned, or living in the class system that made men choose more suitable well born women as wives.  But consider CoCo often said and was quoted as believing that it was essential for a woman to have a man in her life, to be in love, to love.  She had many disappointments and heartbreaks before she ever met Spatz, a charming younger man living in the South of France, with a half Jewish wife, who came across as more Upper Crust English than German.  She was in her fifties and he in his forties when they became involved.

As you may know from reading my blog, I read every book I feature from cover to cover, and in the last year or so have been reading some books as audio books. Doing so has opened the time I have to read and I especially love it when an author reads their own work.  However, I must tell you upfront that this book as an audio book was a total turn off.  The woman reader (Why when the author is a man?) had such condemnation of CoCo in her sneering attitude and intonations that I couldn't bear to continue to listen to her.  It gave the impression that this "International Best Seller" existed condemn and give an unbalanced account of CoCo.  I winced hearing this aggressively negative voice.
I decided to give reading the old fashioned text a try, and found this was a story that built and had much research to it.  But I was not swayed to the point that I might think that CoCo should have been tried as a war criminal just because while designing costumes very briefly in Hollywood in 1931 (including Gloria Swanson) that she noticed it was run by Jews. 

That Hollywood films were and are made by Jewish people, particular male studio heads was in fact true in her era (and still is dominated by Jewish people), and perhaps this truth spoken is misinterpreted as Anti-Semitism.  For if she really were, would she have lent her name?  Or is it being implied that she herself was just greedy and irresponsible to her contract? If she was truly anti-Semitic then she probably would have not accepted the commission from a Jewish studio boss. She was paid very well - a million - but didn't need the money. If truly anti-Semetic she probably would not have made a deal on her perfume with a Jewish company in the first place. (Her costumes were not successful and she considered Hollywood too glittery and false.)
Nor do I ever find convincing generalizations that Catholics and Christians were raised to believe that Jews killed Jesus.  I never heard that personally from any pulpit or in school or out of the mouth of anyone I knew; some people may have thought that but then they are ignorant of the Roman-occupied culture during Jesus' time.
That she felt ripped off by the Jewish-owned perfume company that made most of the profit on her perfume, is true.  She legally battled with them but eventually let them buy her out, so to speak.  She might have done so of any business partner. In a 1924 deal to have her perfume produced to meet great demand, she soon felt swindled and spent the next 25 years saying so, but her perfume is what provided her most of her wealth.
What I wanted was the cold hard facts of CoCo's involvement with Nazi's sans the Baron. Can be believe he admitted to her that he was a spy and asked her to work with him? That the Baron was a special man to her as a woman, that's where CoCo may have been played.  He was known to be a seducer.  He was there in the South of France to infiltrate society that lived there, as did CoCo live some of the time.  He was there to report on Naval operations. That was his secret job. Frankly if I knew someone had married a Jewish or half-Jewish woman I would not assume they were a Nazi.
It's also that she may have played him and others with one objective which may sound selfish, but that is to survive as her world crumbled around her, to continue her business that she had to shut down and leave, to keep her employees, to continue to help her family.  When she finally got out of Paris before the occupation, her employees mostly having fled to the countryside, people starving and in the streets, in bitter cold without heat, it was to her family that she fled.  So what if she could afford a chauffer and a Rolls Royce?  Wasn't she just as entitled to be afraid for her life?

And so if we focus on what the author dug up about the Baron, who was no doubt a spy for Nazi Germany, we can start there. 
In the 1930's CoCo was worth in today's money about $230 million dollars. In the mid 1930's Adolph Hitler's second in command, Joseph Goebbels - who controlled all media - approved Baron Hans Gunther Von Dincklage as a special attaché to the German Embassy in Paris.  French intelligence as well as Swiss intelligence was watching him.  He was part of a "cell" of several hundred Nazi intelligence people in France.  But intelligence may have been keeping an eye on the Baron while CoCo may have been one of many kept ignorant - at least for a while. The Baron's wealth was not close to hers.  He was set up and being paid by Germany.

In Paris the Ritz Hotel became an island of wealth where the elite people moved to live as if there were no war.  Chanel lived there as well as having a workspace and apartment across the street from the back door. The author makes the case that Chanel and some of her dear friends were morphine addicts for much of their lives, and that Chanel used the drug due to the depression she felt when yet another man she loved died suddenly - though this is repeated in the book as fact, it didn't seem to be substantiated, however, let's accept it and think "OK she had weaknesses."
During World War I, one tenth of French men died fighting.  No one wanted to believe another World War would begin but in 1939 when panic hit Paris, there were no taxis, no telephones, and 4 million French fled south, often on foot, ahead of the German army.  By then a lot of people were sorting through garbage cans outside of restaurants to solve their hunger pangs.

Dincklage divorced his wife Maximiliane a few months before the Nuremberg laws of 1934 deprived her of her citizenship.  No one knows for sure when Chanel met Dincklage, but he was married then and he did not divorce for CoCo but to be in compliance with the Nazi regime according to the author.  She testified when questioned after the war that they knew each other for 25 years.

The political and economic conditions in Europe had people choosing sides, even sides that were not winning. People thought that Communists, Socialists, and Fascists wanted to take over France.  Germany and England were not so much considered the enemy but Russians - Bolsheviks - many who were Jewish - were.  People feared a Russian Revolution scenario in France.  As a friend to the exiled Duke of Windsor, who had given up his Kingship for the woman he loved, his Mistress Wallis Simpson, CoCo had taken to meeting up with them and other friends in Switzerland.  Winston Churchill and his son Randolph were also visitors and friends - in England - and in France - and in Switzerland.  Hitler promised that he would reinstall the Duke of Windsor as the British King when Germany won the war.  The Duke and Duchess went to meet Hitler and famously photographed happily shaking hands. If you are social with such people, who are of a more elite status than you, would you follow their lead?
Seven years ago in June 2011 CoCo Chanel, the woman said to have been responsible for dramatically changing the fashion and style of womens' wear, was our Mistress of the Month.  You might want to go back to that month for an overall more balanced view.  As for other Nazi Mistresses, I spent a whole month on them in November 2017.
This book seems to make the case that CoCo was, rather than once in her twenties a love sick woman who struggled with the early limitations of desperate poverty, a more of an experienced and worldly Mistress of more men than previously revealed in films and books.  Throughout her adult life she had relationships, she loved, she was sexual. Her men were of various ethnic backgrounds that influenced her designs. Instead of thinking that the early heartbreaks left her focused only on designing clothes, and perfume, we can think of CoCo who was a woman of business with a sense of responsibility to her employees and family, not just herself. The most convincing part of the book is that she took a trip to Germany and indeed met a Nazi leader herself.


A little later in this month of posts, I'll write more about the relationship CoCo had with the Nazi Spy that I learned from this book.  I would like my readers to ask themselves if they have kept a relationship going with a man after learning something negative about how he conducts business or treats other people.

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Friday, January 21, 2011

MISTRESSES ARE READING TOWN AND COUNTRY MAGAZINE FEBRUARY 2011 LOVE AND THE RICH

Prenuptial Agreement anyone?

We're reading TOWN and COUNTRY, February 2011 edition, on WHAT IS MARRIAGE NOW? Wow!

This edition is rich with - well people - and subjects we love to read about with subtitles like "How Love and Marriage Have Evolved from Wallis Simpson to Kate Middleton", and "Field Guide to Divorce Lawyers"... I'll be paging through the entire edition looking for a mention of mistresses! - Missy

Saturday, August 7, 2010

WALLIS SIMPSONS JEWELS at AUCTION - YAHOO NEWS

"Jewels bought by Britain's King Edward VIII for his American wife Wallis Simpson are expected to fetch up to 3 million pounds ($4.55 million) at auction in November, Sotheby's said on Thursday. The king, who renounced his claim to the British throne in 1936 to marry the divorcee, showered her with gifts of jewelry throughout their courtship and marriage. Many of the "magical jewels" honor events in the couple's lives and are of great importance as both works of art and historical artifacts, said Sotheby's jewelry expert David Bennett."

Click on the link above to get to the article and some pictures of some of the jewels.