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Showing posts with label African American Mistresses. Show all posts
Showing posts with label African American Mistresses. Show all posts
Tuesday, May 28, 2019
Saturday, May 25, 2019
THE AFTERMATH OF 9/11 KOLA BOOF and HER SONS AND THE UNITED STATES GOVERNMENT,
If you're wondering if Kola Boof survived the violence that happened to her, that she participated in, and that she generated, well, she went on to have a relationship and two sons. Her book, Diary of A Lost Girl, speaks to them.
They went into Government Protection after 9/11 and this man she had sons with left her. (Page 309)
"In so many ways your father saved my life with his love."
Now the following may surprise my readers.
Kola admits she lied to this man that she was a virgin when they met.
She needed the tenderness of a first time every time she had sex due to her infibulation. While pregnant she insisted that the father of her sons have a "co-wives." She allowed him to have sex with young African college girls who needed free room and board to live in as her friend, handmaiden. And at first he was against the practice. (Page 318)
YET she says:
"I am completely against the practice of women sharing men."
Well, she accepted this as a pregnant women. She thinks now it would be smarter for women to have multiple boyfriends. (Page 319)
Womanist now, Kola Boof, says that it is still socially acceptable for women to be sex trafficked and enslaved.
Today she is an advocate for the dark skinned Black Woman. She warns Black American women to not accept man sharing. Perhaps she is more qualified than most women because of her extraordinary painful background - her nightmare.
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Diary of a Lost Girl by Kola Boof is the primary reference for this month's post.
They went into Government Protection after 9/11 and this man she had sons with left her. (Page 309)
"In so many ways your father saved my life with his love."
Now the following may surprise my readers.
Kola admits she lied to this man that she was a virgin when they met.
She needed the tenderness of a first time every time she had sex due to her infibulation. While pregnant she insisted that the father of her sons have a "co-wives." She allowed him to have sex with young African college girls who needed free room and board to live in as her friend, handmaiden. And at first he was against the practice. (Page 318)
YET she says:
"I am completely against the practice of women sharing men."
Well, she accepted this as a pregnant women. She thinks now it would be smarter for women to have multiple boyfriends. (Page 319)
Womanist now, Kola Boof, says that it is still socially acceptable for women to be sex trafficked and enslaved.
Today she is an advocate for the dark skinned Black Woman. She warns Black American women to not accept man sharing. Perhaps she is more qualified than most women because of her extraordinary painful background - her nightmare.
C 2019 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot All Rights Reserved
Diary of a Lost Girl by Kola Boof is the primary reference for this month's post.
Thursday, May 23, 2019
AND THEN THERE WAS A LOVE TRIANGLE OF SORTS : KOLA BOOK IN MORE DANGER AS SHE REMEETS ANOTHER MAN SHE'D BEEN A MISTRESS TO
A sort of love triangle with Osama Bin Laden and another man, Hasan al-Turabi, the leader of the National Islamic Front, possibly the most powerful man in the Sudan then, happened. But at first Kola Boof (then Naima) didn't know the two men were friendly. She'd been his mistress in 1995, a year earlier. He had a son Isam who also desired her.
But the one night of romance she had with the son was the end of it. He expected sexual servitude and had intense energy towards her. She thought this emotion was a mix of lust, racial hate, exotica, ideation, and power-over-a-child syndrome.
Should she tell Osama?
She did. She said she had been at Hasan al Turabi's the prior year.
He had horribly abused her verbally and had punched her and broken her nose and fractured her rib. At the hospital the police and nurses found a way to dismiss her complaints because they didn't want trouble for themselves.
But what had ended her relationship with Osama Bin Laden was a fight Naima had with another woman in which she became crazed and stabbed a man. The fight brought Osama to her side with a present again. And now she was pregnant with his child. (Page 210)
Osama figured she was in love with Isam.
So he was violent with her later and even wanted her to wear a dog collar and leash so he could parade her around as a sex slave in front of Isam. He thought this was funny.
A White woman who was assigned to be her maid but was an informant may have been involved in feeding Naima poison so that she miscarried.
Finally Naima told Osama that their relationship was unfair to her. She didn't like the way he took over her life. She wanted to go back to America. And he agreed. He gave her traveling money and her jewels.
He was ready to replace her with a French girl anyway.
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Excerpts are taken from Diary of a Lost Girl by Kola Boof
But the one night of romance she had with the son was the end of it. He expected sexual servitude and had intense energy towards her. She thought this emotion was a mix of lust, racial hate, exotica, ideation, and power-over-a-child syndrome.
Should she tell Osama?
She did. She said she had been at Hasan al Turabi's the prior year.
He had horribly abused her verbally and had punched her and broken her nose and fractured her rib. At the hospital the police and nurses found a way to dismiss her complaints because they didn't want trouble for themselves.
But what had ended her relationship with Osama Bin Laden was a fight Naima had with another woman in which she became crazed and stabbed a man. The fight brought Osama to her side with a present again. And now she was pregnant with his child. (Page 210)
Osama figured she was in love with Isam.
So he was violent with her later and even wanted her to wear a dog collar and leash so he could parade her around as a sex slave in front of Isam. He thought this was funny.
A White woman who was assigned to be her maid but was an informant may have been involved in feeding Naima poison so that she miscarried.
Finally Naima told Osama that their relationship was unfair to her. She didn't like the way he took over her life. She wanted to go back to America. And he agreed. He gave her traveling money and her jewels.
He was ready to replace her with a French girl anyway.
C 2019 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot All Rights Reserved
Excerpts are taken from Diary of a Lost Girl by Kola Boof
Monday, May 20, 2019
KOLA BOOF and OSAMA BIN LADEN - FOUR DAYS IN SHE FELT TRAPPED - JUST ONE OF HIS HAREM
"God I can't lie. The first few weeks I was genuinely excited and hopeful about my fate as his mistress. Although I'm now a womanist who thinks it's shameful. I remember back then feeling really beautiful and desired.... (page 174 Diary of a Lost Girl) Naima had servants, good foo0d, and awaited him to return. She straightened her hair so he could run his hands through it. And he gave her a ruby sapphire necklace and diamond earrings, a $300 bottle of perfume. he seemed to be apologizing for his past behavior and scaring her. (page 175)
So let me editorialize a bit here... Although there are mistresses who do a lot of waiting around for a visit from their man... on call for him at a moments notice... waiting for the phone to ring to summon them... To me Kola's experience is of being entrapped and isolated.... Missy
She became bored and felt trapped and watched. She was guarded and not to leave the premises - granted it was a luxury hotel. And only 4 days had gone by when she asked when he was going to show back up. Turns out Osama Bin Laden had other "dependents" and so she realized she was not special but part of a harem, even if she didn't see the other women.
He was not a terrorist then or she didn't know he was. It was 1996.
"I was a person used to being violated and then denying it."
She called him "Somi."
So let me editorialize a bit here... Although there are mistresses who do a lot of waiting around for a visit from their man... on call for him at a moments notice... waiting for the phone to ring to summon them... To me Kola's experience is of being entrapped and isolated.... Missy
She became bored and felt trapped and watched. She was guarded and not to leave the premises - granted it was a luxury hotel. And only 4 days had gone by when she asked when he was going to show back up. Turns out Osama Bin Laden had other "dependents" and so she realized she was not special but part of a harem, even if she didn't see the other women.
He was not a terrorist then or she didn't know he was. It was 1996.
"I was a person used to being violated and then denying it."
She called him "Somi."
Thursday, May 16, 2019
KOLA BOOF SEARCHED FOR LOVE IN CAIRO, EGYPT
Feeling sure that Hollywood and America had little to offer a dark skinned African woman, Kola Boof headed for Cairo, Egypt in 1994. Her father had that heritage. For some time she had several serious relationships going at the same time as she searched for love. She was young and beautiful and had already experienced being a kept woman. But she wanted to make it on her own. She became suicidal.
Once again she was kept by a man but this one wasn't like the man who she had been kept by in America for five years. She lived in luxury, but one day she returned to the penthouse where she had been living to find a letter saying that her man was ending their agreement and that she would
have to vacate so that a new mistress could move in. Perhaps to soften this blow, the man referred her to a friend who was casting a film in Morocco. It was a Biblical film... He left her a plane ticket and several thousand dollars. She got the hint.
C 2019 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot.
This month's posts are based on Kola's memoir Diary of a Lost Girl
Which came out in 2007
Once again she was kept by a man but this one wasn't like the man who she had been kept by in America for five years. She lived in luxury, but one day she returned to the penthouse where she had been living to find a letter saying that her man was ending their agreement and that she would
have to vacate so that a new mistress could move in. Perhaps to soften this blow, the man referred her to a friend who was casting a film in Morocco. It was a Biblical film... He left her a plane ticket and several thousand dollars. She got the hint.
C 2019 Mistress Manifesto BlogSpot.
This month's posts are based on Kola's memoir Diary of a Lost Girl
Which came out in 2007
Friday, May 10, 2019
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