If you're wondering if Kola Boof survived the violence that happened to her, that she participated in, and that she generated, well, she went on to have a relationship and two sons. Her book, Diary of A Lost Girl, speaks to them.
They went into Government Protection after 9/11 and this man she had sons with left her. (Page 309)
"In so many ways your father saved my life with his love."
Now the following may surprise my readers.
Kola admits she lied to this man that she was a virgin when they met.
She needed the tenderness of a first time every time she had sex due to her infibulation. While pregnant she insisted that the father of her sons have a "co-wives." She allowed him to have sex with young African college girls who needed free room and board to live in as her friend, handmaiden. And at first he was against the practice. (Page 318)
YET she says:
"I am completely against the practice of women sharing men."
Well, she accepted this as a pregnant women. She thinks now it would be smarter for women to have multiple boyfriends. (Page 319)
Womanist now, Kola Boof, says that it is still socially acceptable for women to be sex trafficked and enslaved.
Today she is an advocate for the dark skinned Black Woman. She warns Black American women to not accept man sharing. Perhaps she is more qualified than most women because of her extraordinary painful background - her nightmare.
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Diary of a Lost Girl by Kola Boof is the primary reference for this month's post.
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