Showing posts with label pre-nup. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pre-nup. Show all posts

Saturday, December 16, 2023

THE OWNER OF SEEKING ARRANGEMENTS FOUND HIS OWN LOVE ON THE SITE and HIS ENTIRE ATTITUDE ABOUT LOVE CHANGED

He says the old Seeking Arrangements (Sugar Daddy - Sugar Baby web site got turned into Seekers for those who want to "date up."  I don't promote any dating sites on Mistress Manifesto here, but after listening to this video I was just amazed at the changes in this man's viewpoint about love. He didn't believe in love and was thrice divorced and he thought relationships with women was all about having money but what a change!  He and his much younger wife is going into a "no divorce" marriage.

Because of commercials I'm only providing the link rather than embedding...

9:11 / 9:11 • The rebrand 'Original Sugar Daddy' Who Said Love Was 'Invented By Poor People' Finds Love With 21 Year Old | TM  Posted about a year ago by TM  which is  This Morning, a morning television show broadcast in England.

Brandon Wade married Dana Rosewall in June 2022 and then stepped down as CEO...

Here's one of several articles that appeared on the Internet about this couple:

MIRROR - 51 YEAR OLD MILLIONAIRE MARRIED 21 YEAR OLD ECON STUDENT - NO PRENUP

Saturday, July 28, 2018

DO YOU HAVE A PRE-MISTRESSING FINANCIAL AGREEMENT?

Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings had a pre-mistressing verbal agreement witnessed in Paris by her brother.  Pregnant in Paris, where she and her brother who were there with Jefferson could have walked away and lived in freedom from slavery, he promised the teenager that if she came back with him to the United States - Virginia - Monticello - that he would free their children once they became adults - and he did.  At that time, in my opinion, Sally was both vulnerable and at the height of her negotiating power.  (I believe modern women are generally at the height of their negotiating power with a man before they move in with him and I think a Mistress should keep her own residence.) But his willingness to make this deal communicated that he saw them having a future together and that she trusted him.


There is such a thing as a pre-nup, and there has been among the wealthier people for some time.  For instance, before Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy married Aristotle Onassis, there were negotiations of how much she could spend a year and how much she would get for each year of marriage should they divorce. Though controversial when he died without completing a divorce from her, Onassis, his lawyers, Ted Kennedy - the brother of her deceased husband President John F. Kennedy, and her lawyers are all rumored, depending on what book about them you read, to have taken part in these negotiations as a legal financial understanding before the wedding.  In some cultures such discussions could be called "bride price" or while a "dowry" is the money that a woman brought into a marriage with her; many poor women without a dowry were unmarriageable.


If you are a Mistress, or contemplating accepting a man's offer to be Kept by him, I strongly suggest you do negotiate, but it feels tacky to many and not romantic.


DO YOU HAVE A PRE-MISTRESSING FINANCIAL AGREEMENT?