Dr. Toni Grant married and moved away, but she was one of the first talk show hosts on radio to focus on psychology. People, mostly women, and mostly women who couldn't seem to get and keep relationships going, called in for advice. Eventually she wrote this book, which I have in my library, and which is aimed at the dynamic woman who can't get married. (I want to make it clear that's not every woman!)
Famous for coining phrases such as Pooh Bear Eternis (the male who never matures) and Ghostly Lover (when you love a man who does not exist, exists only in your imagination, or who you're so hung up on you can't move on to another), and the various aspects of femininity such as the Mother and the Courtesan, Dr. Toni Grant's feminism was seriously questioned. (Personally I think of her as one type of feminist - there are many!)
I've been debating over Pamela and Patricia. In one scene in her book STRANGE DAYS, Jim Morrison calls Patricia "Mother." It's a cut. He doesn't want her to tell him what to do. In her book she goes on a bit about the fact that she would not put up with him treating her badly or his drug abuse or alcoholism and Pam would. Pamela Courson, more vulnerable, clearly dependent, with a pixie-ish voice and girlishness about her, seems to me to be more of a Courtesan, but it's she who goes about telling people she's Jim's wife, while for years Patricia keeps her witch wedding with Jim a secret.
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