Showing posts with label nobility. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nobility. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 10, 2023

AND THEN THERE WAS NAPOLEON : THOUGHT TO BE A HERO BY THE POLES

Excerpt page 40-41 

At this critical stage of his wars Napoleon was thirty-seven years old.  He was no longer the slender, intense, youthful general of the days of Rivoli and Mantua, "burning  eyes in a worn-out uniform," the passionate lover writing ardent letters to Josephine, his unfaithful bride of a few weeks. "Rome had now replaced Sparta," as Victor Hugo was to write years later, the young prodigy of the Italian campaigns had become the Emperor, the law-giver, the new Caesar.  Though he now had most of Europe at his feet, he was still contemplating mew conquests. His powerful imagination - that 'gout de l'iossil' as he called it - roamed all over the world.

Physically, he was at his peak.  His powerful, broad-chested body exuded energy. He was always standing, walking, or riding, but rarely seated, and his capacity for work was prodigious. The pale olive complexion was clear and smooth, the brow wide and high, the blue-grey penetrating and unflinching. He had to watch his weight when in Paris but was always extremely fit on campaign.  Though only five feet seven inches tall - the average height for Frenchman in those days  he emanated dynamic self-assurance.  Massena used to say that 'he seemed at least two feet higher, when he put on his general's hat.'


In 1896 Napoleon's troops arrived in Warsaw Poland to excitement and cheers.

Excerpt: 45-46:
As it happened, Marie had already met with French Troops at Walewice (the estate her husband owned) and had formed an unexpected friendship which was to lead to dramatic developments in her life.

On the march towards Warsaw, when Marshal Davout's troops occupied the town of Lowicz, the nearby castle of Walewice became the headquarters of the Guards Brigade staff.  The Walewskis, who since September had been spending most of their time in Warsaw, much to Marie's satisfaction, had come down a few weeks before to be with Benedict, Marie's brother who was quietly recruiting volunteers in the province for service in Napoleon's army. ....

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Marie's son was about a year and a half years old ad was fussed over by elderly female relatives but he was not the most sturdy child.

Through introductions, the seventeen year old Marie, was escorted around by a twenty-two year old Charles de Flahaut, who was the son of Talleyrand and Adelaide de Flahaut, lover of Queen Hortense... 

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Excerpt page 53:

According to the usually reliable memoirs of the Countess von Kielmansegge, when Tallyrand and his son discussed Warsaw society, Charles de Flahaut mentioned the beautiful chatelaine of Walewice. Father and son both agreed that 'there was at least one compensation for the terrible climate of this otherwise dismal country - the number of attractive women about, who in their education ad manner resembled the best of the French. Countess Kielmansegge also noted that Marie and Anastase dined with Talleyrand and Flahaut... a few days after the foreign Minister's arrival, and that Talleyrand appeared to have been much struck with Marie's beauty and also her intelligence....

Excerpt page 54-55:
Torch parades moved across town; bonfires were lit round the castle; hand-made Napoleonic golden eagles adorned houses and shops, ad the two principal theaters, the National and the Francuski, held open performances for the public.

All these preparations were, however, frustrated by Napoleon's unexpected arrival late in the  night of 18 December. (1806) As the main raid to Warsaw was virtually impassable because of accumulated mud and raging floods, he arrived on horseback, to change mounts.  ....

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The joy of Napoleon coming to the aid of the Poles was soon tempered by the anxiety and tension of battles being fought.  Marie threw herself into tending to the wounded. 

Excerpt page 57:

... Women gathered together to sew hospital linen, turn sheets into bandages, stockpile medicines. Families vied with each other in offering food and hospitality to the wounded.

It was in this hectic half war, half hospital atmosphere that Marie spent the last week of the year...

Excerpt page 58:

One afternoon in December, on their way back from the hospital, Elizabeth (Grabowska - Sobolewski)  stopped the carriage in front of the Zamek.  Workers were putting finishing touches to the gilt work in the great assembly-room on the first floor, where it was hoped Napoleon would attend a reception. 'We walked up to the huge empty ballroom.' Marie recalled in her Memoirs. 'I was stunned by the thought that quite soon I might see him in this very room, in the flesh.  An inexplicable fear seized me, I called for my carriage and went home.'

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Thursday, March 24, 2022

HIS MEHBOOBA WILL SOMEDAY BE QUEEN CONSORT!

Camilla Shand, Camilla Parker-Bowles, Camilla - Duchess of Cornwall.  Not for nothing has she been featured here at MISTRESS MANIFESTO in May 2010 and April 2016 as the most famous Mistress who became a wife in the 20th-21st century!  (Check those months out!)

Recently on Queen Elizabeth II's Platinum Jubilee (70 years on the throne), she made it clear that Prince Charles will become King when she is deceased. No, he will not be punished because he divorced Lady Diana Spencer.  History is history and life must go on.  I'm sure this statement from the Palace was designed to end the rumors that the throne will skip over Charles and go right to his son, heir Prince William. Of course, anything could happen as the Queen is seriously old and Prince Charles is over 70 years old himself.

Prince Charles and Camilla Shand married in 2005 and have been careful to publicly have a wait and see attitude about the throne and what her title will be.

So very many articles came out about the Queen's official statement.  And the statement which appeared in the Daily Mail UK and then other publications showed the statement on official stationery.  Camilla will be called Queen Consort.

Most delightful recently was the reveal that Prince Charles affectionately calls Camilla, Mehbooba, which is an Urdu language word for My Beloved. Camilla, called by Princess Diana 'the third person' in her marriage, is said to be a perfect companion for the Prince, who, in my opinion, could of and should have married her in the first place.  We don't always know it when we meet a soul mate do we?

This article from the Daily Mail also says that she will be wearing one of the most majestic Crowns ever made at the Coronation of Charles.  Wow!


Wednesday, September 15, 2021

THE ROLE OF A LADY IN WAITING




 WHAT DOES A  "LADY IN WAITING" ACTUALLY DO?

The answer may be "everything." Sometimes called a "maid" I can't promise you if you get a job/role being a Lady In Waiting you won't do some house work, but a Personal Assistant is more like it. Except the at the women who do this work don't get paid.  They are usually from rich families or in rich marriages and of the nobility themselves and don't "need" to work for pay. It's an honor and a tradition. So is paying what's called "room and board" or for travel expenses. Usually a Queen or a Princess (at least the ones who are working) has several. Some of these women travel with the Woman of higher rank or perform certain functions such as attending to public duties while others might be on what's called "a two week rotation" followed by four weeks off, so it's part-time, yet not too flexible. Sure there are perks. Seeing close up the work of the Queen or traveling the world with a Princess can mean seeing history in the making or watching a marriage fall apart.

According to an article in Women and Home, entitled "Who is the Queen's Trusted Lady-In-Waiting And What Exactly Does She Do?" by Laura Harmon, published in April of this year, the Queen, Elizabeth II, has had a trusted Lady-In-Waiting by her side for decades and this woman even attended the funeral of Prince Phillip, the Queen's husband, with the Queen. (We all know how restricted the attendance was for that event.) Her name is Lady Susan Hussey, a Baroness, who first came into the Queen's employ about the time Prince Andrew was born and the Queen needed someone to do the secretarial duty of making out Thank You notes. Lady Susan was made a Dame Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order in 2013 and this is the highest rank personally granted by the sovereign. Just as our Mistress of the Month, Lady Elizabeth Georgiana Alice Cavendish was, for her work for Princess Margaret.

According to Cheatsheet.com, an article called "The Surprising Duties of Royal Family Ladies in Waiting", by Milla Henson, published in May of this year, The Mistress of Robes takes care of the Queens wardrobe - including what tiara she might wear, while the Mistress of the Bedchamber is the Queens Best friend, because she helps her dress, undress, bathe, and get ready for bed. Since the women who work at Waiting are considered friends and worthy of trust, they never retire.

How many of you would like to try this line of work?


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