Missy here: When the man that a woman has been mistress to, especially when she has been so for many years or to the end of his life, dies, what is the 21st century etiquette? Does she attend his funeral or not? As we learned when in January 2020 I covered Art Historian Anne Pingeot, the Mistress of French statesman and President Francois Maurice Mitterrand. who did attend his funeral, as perhaps the attitude in France is different than in the United States. Or perhaps it was the attitude his wife had.
Page 402: Paul Mellon died on February 1, 1999, almost to the day his doctor had reportedly predicted. A week later, his gray and yellow American racing colors draped his coffin at Trinity Episcopal Church in Upperville. (His horse racing colors... Upperville, Virginia.) .... The church was jammed, and the internment was thronged with family, friends from near and far, local farmers, and staff. Dignitaries and colleagues, all old friends from institutions Paul had generously supported, were also there.
Both of Dorcas' children were there at Bunny's request and were given seats up front. From father back, I could see my schoolmate Diana Hardin's red hair. I did not see Dorcas Hardin in the church, but John Baskett later told me she had been invited and had, correctly, declined.
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EXCERPT: "Known for her sunny personality and her sense of style, Mrs. Hardin was described in a 1949 Washington Post article as the "best dressmaker designer" in the city. In 1954, when it was difficult to come by designer clothing in Washington stores, she decided to open an exclusive dress shop that would cater to the city's prominent women.
Her small, tony boutique, called Dorcas Hardin, opened on Dumbarton Avenue in 1954. She carried clothing by designers Bill Blass, Oscar de la Renta, Ben Zuckerman, James Galanos and Pauline Trigere at a time when their creations were otherwise available only in New York."
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As mentioned previously, Katharine Graham, the owner of the Washington Post, had threatened her reporters saying anyone who reported on the Paul Mellon - Dorcas Hardin affair.
Dorcas lived until 2006. Rachael "Bunny" Lambert Mellon lived until 2014, She was one hundred and four years old!
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