I'm going to be Out Of Town this month, but as far back as September I've been thinking about my December 2014 Issue of Mistress Manifesto. December has become the month in which I don't choose a Mistress of the Month, but look forward to the holidays and sort of wrap up the year.
My question for you, if you're a Mistress, or not, is if you're going to go through these few weeks content with your relationship status, be that unmarried, married, never married, whatever, if you're going to begin, stay in or end a relationship when the New Year comes, or if you're going to choose to move on into another way of life.
Our modern life is so challenging, and while I think it's good to think positive, that's not to say it's good to be in denial. Intelligent decisions are mandatory! So while I think it's a good idea to check in with yourself from time to time and speak your own truths to yourself, if no one else, something about the holidays, this first push into winter, can push you to those thoughts, while at the same time distracting you because of social events and all that good cheer.
If you happen to the type of person who is more alone than lonely, you may actually be looking forward to staying home, cooking a favorite meal, setting a nice table for yourself, listening to music, decorating for the holidays (or maybe redecorating your whole place just because), or maybe getting all dressed up and taking yourself out to dinner at a lux restaurant, and if you're like me, a favorite way to spend down time is reading a new book.
This month I'm going to excerpt from a book that came out a few years ago that is based on what we know of the life of Jackie Kennedy Onassis, called WHAT WOULD JACKIE DO?. This book is both fun and thought-provoking, and you just might want to ask yourself WHAT IT IS YOU DO when... you're looking for a mate instead of a date, a man wants to take you out shopping, or you have to choose a man among men.
Jackie wasn't perfect. We put her up on a throne when she was First Lady of the United States. But we can learn from her to this day! Isn't she fascinating? Her daughter, Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg has decided to reveal some of her mother's personal papers years before her mother willed it. The Kennedys have bought up letters that Jackie sent to a Irish priest she had befriended before she married detailing her loss of faith in God after her husband, our President John F. Kennedy, was assassinated. There are so very many books about Jackie, including new ones that reveal what a psychological mess (rather than pillar of strength) she was after that historic event. She had the nerve to be human!
So I hope you will find this month lighthearted...
I'm wishing everyone the best for the coming year!
Missy
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UPDATE JANUARY 2017
Just completed reading this book on Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis, one of modern history's most fascinating women. You may find it interesting, as I did. Subtitled, One Remarkable Year When Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis Defied Expectations and Rediscovered Her Dreams, you learn that, though she had many advantages, and being famous and having marvelous social and other contacts certainly helped, Jackie still had to push herself forward. The Chapters are titled, The Wife, The Writer, The Preservationist, The Widow, The Target, The Seeker, The Hot Prospect, The Working Woman, The Empty Nester.All of us go through transients or phases, and these chapter titles are telling. Also useful to us here at MISTRESS MANIFESTO BLOGSPOT, is a Chapter that includes much about Jackie, her sister Lee, and their eccentric relatives Big and Little Edie. Little Edie was our Mistress of the Month a while ago, and you can find her in these pages using the search feature embedded in the Blogger sidebar. The relationship was this. Big Edie was the sister of Jackie's father, nicknamed Black Jack. So Little Edie was the cousin of Jackie and Lee. Like Jackie, Little Edie had been a "Farmington debutant."
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