DECLARATION FOR MISTRESSES - Appreciation

"A gift always deserves sincere appreciation.  It never hurt to thank someone!"

You've heard "It's the thought that counts, and probably, you have received some gifts that made you wonder "Whatever does she think of me?"  Well, these days people are re-gifting a lot, and those hockey-puck fruit cakes seem to really make the rounds, though the fresh ones can be wonderful - a thin slice and some dreamy French Vanilla ice cream on the side!  Or maybe you've had the experience of visiting a friend and noticing that she brought out something you gifted her to show you that she actually uses the piece. 

Since few of us are close to royalty or diplomats and don't have people who keep track of the gifts we've received and the ones we give, it's up to you.  Frankly, I don't believe in re-gifting.  It's too tricky.  Instead, if there is something I truly cannot appreciate and use, I donate it to a charity bazaar.

If someone gives you a gift that was clearly well thought out but still doesn't work for you, say a garment that is the wrong size or that you have too many of, it is OK to say so and return it for something else.  The best way to do this?

"Sandra, that beautiful chemise you bought me is a bit too snug.  I hope your feelings won't be hurt, but I would like to exchange it."  If she's your best friend, invite her to go shopping with you and help you choose something else!

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