VANITY FAIR APRIL 2010 DOES A BIG DEAL ON TIGER WOODS and THE WOMEN and the GAMBLING and...

TIGER WOODS : I've read the upcoming Vanity Fair article about Tiger Woods! I have an advanced subscription to May 2010... and the link to that article is above (click on the title of this blogpost!)

Let me paraphrase for you. Jamie Jungers is saying (page 208-209 of the paper magazine) that when she called the billionaire who was also a big shot gambler - winning and loosing huge amounts of money and thus coddled in Vegas, and who she had been sleeping with for 18 months, to help her - financially - because she needed to move out of the apartment she'd been sharing with an ex boyfriend, Tiger said "I can't." In all the time they saw each other he gave her no cards, no nothing. SHE WAS NOT A MISTRESS. She was not loved. She was not helped.

Yet, according to a woman who worked as a professional escort - and a "Madam" who is presently out of business has said that Loredana Jolie Ferriolo was her top escort at $15,000 a night - Tiger was a big spender. Loredana says she went on a shopping spree and spent about $20,0oo in addition to her fees. She was not loved or kept either, but she didn't expect to be really.

Another woman, the girl next door who works in a diner, testifies to how she met up for sex with him for a long time, "fell in love," but he was also cheap with her. He didn't love her or keep her either.

OK - Get this! Tiger Woods NEVER HAD A MISTRESS! He managed to use some women, women who knew he was married, kept having sex with him when he wanted it, sneaking around with him to have sex, but who WERE NOT BEING DATED, or COURTED, or KEPT. These women need to understand their true natures. They are easy. They made no demands. They didn't want to risk being rejected or ignored by Tiger if they did not have sex with him. They named no price (maybe because they were "good" girls) and they were not gifted a single thing in appreciation for their love-making, or the time they took out of their love-lives to focus on him...

The professional escort got paid because she had a Madam whose clientele was in Vegas, and Tiger could show off to his friends that he could and did pay this top price. She may not be the girl next door imagining love all tied up in sex on demand, but at least she has some material advantages - an independence - due to her activities. (Save and invest your money for the days when your looks fail you honey!)

THE KEY HERE IS WE ARE TALKING ABOUT A BILLIONAIRE WHO CLEARLY HAS A LOT OF MONEY TO THROW AROUND. When someone who works, but makes an average income, and who has lived their life around a man who has that kind of money, gets NOTHING to make their lives a little better, it's pathetic on the man's part because he is such a user, and pathetic on the woman's part because she let herself be so used. It is only right - and kind - that he offer.

OTHERWISE, truly, a woman is better off with one of her own peers, and someone who has the potential to be with her as a husband, or as his mistress!