Sunday, May 29, 2011

Thursday, May 26, 2011

MISTRESSES ARE READING PATTI STANGER BECOME YOUR OWN MATCHMAKER

Missy here! OK first of all there are not just 8 steps and they are not easy, however, we can all learn something from Patti Stanger here, who has had her own tough road to follow when it comes to men. (And by the way, we hear she just broke her years long relationship and also went on a diet to slim down to dating size again.)



Here is the list of things you do not want to talk about NEVER with a date
from pages 158 -168:

YOUR OWN ADVENTURES IN DATING

YOUR EX

MONEY (She says it is uncouth and to never ever ask a man for money during the pre-marriage relationship. Presents however, are generally acceptable to keep.)

HEALTH PROBLEMS

RELIGION

POLITICS

NEGATIVE SUBJECTS THAT DEPRESS YOU

YOUR CHILDREN

SEX

YOUR DIET

CELEBRITIES (She herself can't help to but...)

BUSINESS



But do talk about

SPORTS

TRAVEL

LITERATURE

CULTURE

MOVIES

NATURE

YOUR COMMUNITY

MUSIC

HUMOR

PETS

THE MEDIA

LOCAL AND NATIONAL NEWS

and especially research so you can talk about HIS FAVORITE SUBJECTS!



Pge 169

"Men fall in love through their eyes and women fall in love through their ears."




BECOME YOUR OWN MATCHMAKER
8 EASY STEPS FOR ATTRACTING YOUR PERFECT MATE
Star of The Millionaire matchmaker
Patti Stanger with Lisa Johnson Mandell
Atria Books - A Division of Simon and Schuster, Inc.
C 2009

Sunday, May 22, 2011

MISSY ASKS YOU : YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS BUSINESS BUT HIS MARRIAGE ?

The career couple - his and her - like Bill and Hillary Clinton (though we have yet to hear that Bill or Hillary ever kept a woman) - often accommodate affairs and mistresses. Marriages like the Clinton's are often thought to be just for mutual career advancement or politics.

Mistresses are often thought to be just part of business.

But his wife? She isn't staying in "just for business" or is she ?
What about the prestige of the couple within their community, such as at their temple or church, or his reputation in business founded on the idea that he's a strong family man?

Who is most motivated to keep a husband, a wife, or a mistress?

Saturday, May 21, 2011

IS DENMARK A MISTRESS OASIS?

Over the last month DENMARK had hit this blog and that comparatively small country hit it half as much as the whole UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!

Are there Mistresses hiding out in Denmark? Missy

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

ARNOLD SCHWARZENEGGER'S "MISTRESS?" PATTY BAENA REALLY?

Like you I was somewhat stunned to hear that the marriage of Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwarzenegger is over, because it has been revealed that about 14 years ago he fathered a child with an employee who retired a few months ago after 20 years of service, billed as housekeeper and assistant and mistress, Mildred Patricia "Patty" Baena.

By this morning reports were that she seduced him or that they had unprotected sex in the house or that she did not tell him he was the father until the child was a toddler or that she had fled the four bedroom house he had bought her or that he had been very generous or that he left office, she retired on good terms, and when he told his wife (Maria) in January she immediately took their four children and fled the marriage. It is said that Patty put her husband's name on the birth certificate and filed for a separation after the birth, but didn't get around to starting divorce proceedings until 2008.

Other women are also coming forth that they had affairs with Arnold. Is it true that Maria was always hearing rumors but did not believe any of it until this? Kind of like with Tiger? Is a Vanity Fair Mistress spread next?

Once again we're challenged by the use of MISTRESS by the press to describe a woman who had an affair, and then received financial support for a child conceived in that affair, which includes a nice house to live in and raise that child.

Because famous people are involved, being discreet is also a difficulty, especially when there is great interest in how a political person in office uses their money and power.

CONTRACEPTION IS NOT PERFECT but it seems that MEN KNOW WHAT THEY HAVE TO DO TO DO THEIR PART IN NOT CONCEIVING A CHILD. AS SO WOMEN. We're not in the bed with the couple but we have to wonder if BOTH were ignorant or overly trusting.
It would be easy to link to any number of stories on the net, including pictures, which show off this "mistress" buxom body, and have pixel's over the child's face. Has anyone considered what going to the press might do to this child? Yes, a child has the right to know his parentage, and maybe Arnold has been visiting him all along, but his privacy as a child is important too.

We'll be following this story!

C Missy Rapport/ Mistress Manifesto blog 2011 All Rights including Internation and Internet Rights Reserved.

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

KARIN STANFORD SAYS JESSE'S MARRIAGE IS POLITICAL

KARIN STANFORD says they were in love with one another but accepted that their circumstances precluded a conventional relationship.

"He didn't make any promises," she says. "I didn't think we'd have a future together. I just thought it was something we were doing for the moment."

Stanford also says it did not bother her that Jackson was married. "From what I understood about Rev. Jackson's marriage was that it was basically a political marriage," she says.

Link to the ABC news article above.

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Thursday, May 5, 2011

MISTRESS OF THE MONTH KARIN STANFORD : HE WAS MARRIED WITH FIVE CHILDREN, SHE WAS 19 YEARS YOUNGER, HE'S PAYING $4000 a MONTH IN CHILD SUPPORT

KARIN STANFORD is Mistress of the Month for May 2011!

She's Jesse Jackson (Sr.)'s ex, with whom he has a daughter, Ashley. Karin has gone after child support and been fairly quoted in the news, though she says it was the FEDS who outed them.

Jesse Jackson is one of those Christian Ministers who has a lifestyle that's barely conservative, a charismatic man, and one who had Presidential ambitions. It was he who counseled then President of the United States, Bill Clinton, when Bill got caught lying about Monica Lewinsky. It just may be that because of his affair with Karin, Jesse had to give up on a White House Future.

Karin says she has "no regrets," and thinks of their daughter as a miracle child, born in 2000. Karin started life over as a professor of Pan-African Studies and Politics Pan- at California State College, Northridge, in Los Angeles California, and is the author of a book about Cancer Survivors, Breaking the Silence - Inspirational Stories of Black Cancer Survivors, as well as other books.

Like many modern mistresses, she is an educated woman, who could support herself well, without a man's help. Never the less, love and awe of a man, led her to being a mistress, at least for a time in her life. UPDATE AUGUST 2013: Karin, if we count hits only, is probably the most popular mistress I've written about. A recent comment about what would have happened if a CONSERVATIVE Public Figure had been involved with Karin intregues me. As recent new information comes out about Monica Lewinsky and President William Clinton comes out, I think that in fact there have been many politicians linked with women other than their wives. Some of these mostly men are Repulicans, some are Democrats. Some of these men have suffered for it, even if it only appeared they had an affair, or it was discovered they had many affairs, and some have fathered children in long term adultery. Consider Gary Hart. However, defining who is a mistress these days is complicated by the general lack of marriage, couples who lived together, people who have an alternative lifestyle such as living in deliberate polygamy or living with more than one lover all in the same household. I don't dwell on those who have affairs but not RELATIONSHIPS, and where there is a child there is usually a RELATIONSHIP.

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

A PAUSE : THE ROYAL WEDDING OF CATHERINE Duchess of Cambridge and CAMILLA PARKER BOWLES WINDSOR

A pause here. Yes - of course I watched The Royal Wedding. And I was impressed. Of course, I really truly hope that Catherine and William will have a wonderful enduring marriage. I hope they will both be faithful and loyal.

But I couldn't help but wonder about CAMILLA PARKER BOWLES WINDSOR, the mistress who finally married her Prince, Charles, years after they met. I saw her image on the television screen once or twice and I wondered what she was thinking! I'm one of those people who wishes that Charles and she had married young and never mind all that Princess Shy Di business.

But here we are, 2011, and of course I wondered if Diana was hovering with pride over William and Catherine.

Is there really a way to mistress-proof a marriage?

YOU?


Sunday, May 1, 2011

ANYONE WHO HAD A HEART : DUSTY SPRINGFIELD


Read a bio of Dusty a few years ago and she was a lesbian woman who had turbulent relationships. I wonder if she would have had an easier time of it today, when lesbianism is so much more open and acceptable than it was in those days when she was in the limelight.